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so theres this guy iv known for over a year now. Iv just know him online & stuff, never actually met him. But like i had him on bebo so we've seen each others pics & hes bin on cam and all. Catch is, theres quite an age diffrence between us. 3 - 4 years . & he was wayyy careful abt that! But yeah we did like each other and stuff. and this was like a year after talkin to each other that he admited he liked me too. but he was v.careful not to talk about sex or stuff cossa the age diffrence. AND he made it clear that we probs wudnt meet until im like 15 or sumthinggg. im just trynna point out he isnt sum randum pedo or anything. but thing is, whenever i get into a 'thing' (not QUITE a relationship yano?) with a guy, i start feeling sick and trapped. i never imagined id feel like tis with him too, but apparently i did. and then idk what happened, i just acted like a coward and deleted my account i had him on and his number and stuff. but now like quite alot of months have passed and
ok tbh i get along much better with boys. i like to keep a balance. i dont wanna have all girl friendss. like whenever i get fedup with girls, i go to the boys. i know its stupid, but i just prefer having guy friendss. (NOT boyfriends). but thing is, i go to an allgirls school and its 'unnatural' for me to have boymates, or so my prnts say. so apparently m not allowed to hang out with boys, incase i start dating them. wth man, now im not even allowed to be MATES with boys? its so daaft. i get along so much better with them! I cba sneaking out & making boy mates, cos its just too stupid & complicated. not like im having sex with them or kissing them or anything! What should i do? If i talk to my prnts theyl just be like NO ITS NOT IN OUR RELIGEON & blah blah blah. Its so irritating!
whats yours? :D
if you dunno what im on bout, watch the video of Dirty Little Secret
by The All-American Rejects.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ikv7TI87io
xD
ok so theres this girl in my class. she seems a little obsessed with me. i know for a fact she always wanted to be good mates with me.. but if i hang around with her, she expects us to follow her around. & i dont follow people around. im perfectly happy with my own grouup. But shes no irritating. Everything iI say she mimicks it, in a 'joke'. She always interferes with me. And then her bestmate (i was good mates with her before) now going on @ me that im 'blankin' her. wtf dude? just cos i dont talk to her much? i mean, if she talks to me, id talk back. she cant expect me to tail her arwnd trynna talk to her. She just started going on @ me on msn soon as i signed on. hnstly. And tday the first girl started giving me dirty looks randumly cos i was just having fun ( i had a scarf around my forhed, like one of em 80s gstas ;]) . and started talkin bout me. everytime im talkin to others she trys to talk to em. i know this swnds relle immature but it COULD get serious.
if so, who dyu want to win? tbh i really like stacy (y) & daniel (y) & jamie (y) ahaha. & olly s'well.
Srsly, chudnt Rachel have gone through? I mean like, HONESTLY. shes CLERLY a better singer than Lloyd! He just got voted for cos hes GORJUS. well ok yes he is heartbrreakinly beautiful
got it cut agaaain.
they should have a live chat in 'ere. But since they don't..
Haha, hows everyone? Telll me 'bout your day or wever. im bored.
Mine waz okkk. I got a haircut (yes,AGENN!) . its a bob, i relleeeee
okay so shes like few of the closest people to me + is like my bestfriend. We've known each other since we were 6. Shes chubby, but not fat (she think she is no matter how much i tell her.) then she told me that one of her ex-teachers told her mum to get her to excersize and she was so hurt she started crying (of the 5 years iv known her, shes never cried ONCE infront of anione. it was the biggest shock ever, watching her cry. shes always laughing) but blahblah whatever..
point is. she wants to lose weight + i want to help her. TIPS & ADVICES ON DIETS AND HEALTHY EATING AND EXCERSIZING AND STUFF?
would appreciate it x
my dads makin me crazy! hes gone striccter on me than ever before. He never let me go on sleepovers, or out with mates anywhere. He doesnt even let me go to their houses for the day unless he & their parents are mates! And he never let me wear skirts or shorts or sleevless & stuff. Not even at school ! (i go to an ALL-GIRLS ffs) yesterdat he started shouting at me cos i went out with him widout a jacket on.. i was wearin knee lengh jeans and a halfsleeved top. wtf? not like i was dressin like a slut! He started shouting at me the whole way. And when i talk to my mum shes like OK IL TALK TO HIM and she doesnt actali relle give a fuck. shes getting divorced apparently from him but wont move out the house. then she complains that my dad wont let her go. She doesnt care bout me much at all tbh (i know what im saying. and its not just cos im angry. its a long story). My dad interferes in EVERYTHING. my mate says summt to me on mssn and he goes WHY SHE SAYING THAT or summat.
I might be losing my mind here but watch this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p8FypIX67xo&feature=player_embedded
aint Noctis adorable? :') (hes some game character of Final Fantasy. never played it but ever since i watched this video i
midsummer_dreams's latest answers
Question: Problems, Problems, Problems. Part 1 (by ChelseaDianneDarling)
midsummer_dreams's answer: consider yourself lucky. some 13 yeared olds are like, totally flat. But yeah you WILL start growing. You can wear them bras that lift your boobs up if you like, or fake boobs. though you probs dont wanna fall that low ;]
& im 11, around 5'2 or 5'1 & i wiegh like 8 stones. idk how much that is in pounds but anyways, i know its overweight for me. most people my age are like 6 or 7 stones. but im not fat. and thats all i pretty much care about xD
Question: ok i am becoming emo help!!!!! (by crazy_izzi)
midsummer_dreams's answer: ookie dookie.
i have the same problem. whenever im mad, i just lose my mind and run off to the toilet and cut. im not thinking when im doing that, its just the only thing on my mind. I cant control it when im doing it, no matter ho hard i try. and now iv got like, cuts all over my left arm upto my elbow.
its so hard to hide. the gone now, and the scars arnt too bad. but the scabs were, and i would always have to wear longsleeves . my mum found out about it.
but anywaays, try to talk to someone. my mum was so upset about it that i started feeling dead guilty. and now i wanted to do it again a few hours ago cos i was angry but i managed to stop myself, i just remembered how guilty i was before.
so id say talk to an adult, maybe it'd help. get rid of all the razors and stuff from your house. i had a bad time too, + i still going throo it. right now when im mad, nothing helps. music, books etc. nothing. if anything, it makes it worse.
so i guess all i do is lie down and cry as much as i can. let it all out, & eventually i get tired and fall asleep and when i wake up, most the anger has gone. im still not that strong and sometimes i do snap, but blah whateverrr.
thing is, you just need to breatheeeee and let it all out. hurt other things rather than yourselffff. or just cry. (;
hpe i hlped.
x
Question: I'm really insecure about my breasts. (by Demi_Magg)
midsummer_dreams's answer: LOL im just like you. im 11 & a C (;
its irritating, i knw. but you gotta realise.. you might be insecure now cos you feel like the odd one out.. but trust me.. ur gonna be THANKFUL when your older.
your gonna get alot of jelousy ;P
people always tease me bout my boobs but i ignore em cos i know theyr just jelous. just wear the right sort of bra & avoid low necks
Question: I got my hair cut, finally. (by LuffyLoveLou)
midsummer_dreams's answer: love the hair. tbh i dont think theyr that short. you can tease them to make it look like you were trying to achieve that look. or i guess youl justhave to clip em to the side til they grow a bit x
Question: Picture Ideas, Makeup Ideas, Hair Ideas. (: (by ChelseaDianneDarling)
midsummer_dreams's answer: your gorgeous :O
& muahahha im the same. i take a trillion photos till i get one i like :'D
dress crazy. like wear layers and layers of shirts aha. like wear a bright full-sleeved one and then put a boobtube on it. a miniskirt with seriously ripped up jeans underneath. (my mum had a heartattack once when i literally destroyed my jeans. i ripped them too much. but it looked goooooooood ;] )
as for makeup. you can try alot of diff things with eyeshadows when your bored. you can have diff neon colours like pink, blue, green etc all onto one eye in layers (; (yer im all about layers aha) get a rainbow design on your eye (;
i always love drawing on myself tbh. fake tattoos. get one of thoseee. they're interesting for photos aha. & i love writing stuff on my knuckles like:
http://16.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_konidlUNke1qzynolo1_400.jpg
& tbh im a sucker @ poses. i relle suck @ em. i need help on that myself ahaaa, i just stand there like a corpse :/
well hpe i helped with the rest x
Question: What scene haircut would work with glasses? (by heavenly_demise)
midsummer_dreams's answer: http://www.hji.co.uk/hjimages/images/qhs832/hji/medium/2005-red-long.jpg
i had this. worked well for me (: i wear glasses too. but mine was messier. you can check em on my albumm (: i only have one pic with glasses on thoughh aha.
and lenses dont hurt. any age can wear em. im 11 & i wear em (: they can be hard to put in but they dont HURT.
and tbh any hairstyle could look good with glassess. it matters more whether it suits YOU than whether it suits glases.
gdluck x
Question: hi everyone im new (by hailey07)
midsummer_dreams's answer: yo there ;]
SAY HELLOOO TO YOUR NEW ADDICTION.
i literally used to live on this site, ere
;]
x
Question: wont let me shave (by _LissTheShopaholic_)
midsummer_dreams's answer: 1) your 'friends' shudnt make fun of you.
2) if you tell your mum they make fun of you, she'd say: "what sort of friends are they? make new friends!" & that'd be it.
id say talk her through. ask her why she wudnt let you. if youv started growing hair, then your not all that young. i started shaving legs when i was like 7 or 8. xD xD but i started everything early like periods, hair, boobs etc etc.
anyways, she should let you. if she doesnt, then just do it aniwai & try not to wear skirts of stuff infront of her. Even if you do get it trouble, well... like jessd said, id rather get in trouble tahn be made fun of (:
x
Question: Are These To Sluty To Wear ON Halloween ? (by x_Baby_Get_Shaky_x)
midsummer_dreams's answer: without tights or sumthing?
THEN YES DEFFO (:
esp for a 13 yeared old.
but thats upto you if you wnna wear 'em
Question: Hey just thought i shouldnt be such a stranger so.... (by BethanyJL)
midsummer_dreams's answer: im may. thats my nickname cos i hate my real name & my surname. Its a typical Iranian name, one thats hard to pronounce (im originally iranian). i live in england which is a greaaat placee.
im 11 haha, but guess i look + act older ? im pretty insane yano. iv no bros & sisters which sucks, coss my 'rents get too protective of me. im a real idiot.
XD
okayy.. *sighs* boy problemms.
so theres this guy iv known for over a year now. Iv just know him online & stuff, never actually met him. But like i had him on bebo so we've seen each others pics & hes bin on cam and all. Catch is, theres quite an age diffrence between us. 3 - 4 years . & he was wayyy careful abt that! But yeah we did like each other and stuff. and this was like a year after talkin to each other that he admited he liked me too. but he was v.careful not to talk about sex or stuff cossa the age diffrence. AND he made it clear that we probs wudnt meet until im like 15 or sumthinggg. im just trynna point out he isnt sum randum pedo or anything. but thing is, whenever i get into a 'thing' (not QUITE a relationship yano?) with a guy, i start feeling sick and trapped. i never imagined id feel like tis with him too, but apparently i did. and then idk what happened, i just acted like a coward and deleted my account i had him on and his number and stuff. but now like quite alot of months have passed and
Category: Love and Relationships |
4 answers
Urgh.
ok tbh i get along much better with boys. i like to keep a balance. i dont wanna have all girl friendss. like whenever i get fedup with girls, i go to the boys. i know its stupid, but i just prefer having guy friendss. (NOT boyfriends). but thing is, i go to an allgirls school and its 'unnatural' for me to have boymates, or so my prnts say. so apparently m not allowed to hang out with boys, incase i start dating them. wth man, now im not even allowed to be MATES with boys? its so daaft. i get along so much better with them! I cba sneaking out & making boy mates, cos its just too stupid & complicated. not like im having sex with them or kissing them or anything! What should i do? If i talk to my prnts theyl just be like NO ITS NOT IN OUR RELIGEON & blah blah blah. Its so irritating!
Category: Other |
4 answers
DLS (dirty little secret)
whats yours? :Dif you dunno what im on bout, watch the video of Dirty Little Secret
by The All-American Rejects.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ikv7TI87io
xD
Category: Entertainment |
6 answers
what the heck.. ?
ok so theres this girl in my class. she seems a little obsessed with me. i know for a fact she always wanted to be good mates with me.. but if i hang around with her, she expects us to follow her around. & i dont follow people around. im perfectly happy with my own grouup. But shes no irritating. Everything iI say she mimicks it, in a 'joke'. She always interferes with me. And then her bestmate (i was good mates with her before) now going on @ me that im 'blankin' her. wtf dude? just cos i dont talk to her much? i mean, if she talks to me, id talk back. she cant expect me to tail her arwnd trynna talk to her. She just started going on @ me on msn soon as i signed on. hnstly. And tday the first girl started giving me dirty looks randumly cos i was just having fun ( i had a scarf around my forhed, like one of em 80s gstas ;]) . and started talkin bout me. everytime im talkin to others she trys to talk to em. i know this swnds relle immature but it COULD get serious.
Category: Love and Relationships |
5 answers
anyOne watches Xfactorrrrrrr?
if so, who dyu want to win? tbh i really like stacy (y) & daniel (y) & jamie (y) ahaha. & olly s'well. Srsly, chudnt Rachel have gone through? I mean like, HONESTLY. shes CLERLY a better singer than Lloyd! He just got voted for cos hes GORJUS. well ok yes he is heartbrreakinly beautiful
Category: Entertainment |
1 answers
Newww Haircut! You Like.. ? xD
Category: Make up |
11 answers
Sheeeeesh.
they should have a live chat in 'ere. But since they don't.. Haha, hows everyone? Telll me 'bout your day or wever. im bored.
Mine waz okkk. I got a haircut (yes,AGENN!) . its a bob, i relleeeee
Category: Entertainment |
3 answers
weight questions; i relle wanna help her!
okay so shes like few of the closest people to me + is like my bestfriend. We've known each other since we were 6. Shes chubby, but not fat (she think she is no matter how much i tell her.) then she told me that one of her ex-teachers told her mum to get her to excersize and she was so hurt she started crying (of the 5 years iv known her, shes never cried ONCE infront of anione. it was the biggest shock ever, watching her cry. shes always laughing) but blahblah whatever..point is. she wants to lose weight + i want to help her. TIPS & ADVICES ON DIETS AND HEALTHY EATING AND EXCERSIZING AND STUFF?
would appreciate it x
Category: Fitness and Diet |
3 answers
okay so im now officially sick of my parents.
my dads makin me crazy! hes gone striccter on me than ever before. He never let me go on sleepovers, or out with mates anywhere. He doesnt even let me go to their houses for the day unless he & their parents are mates! And he never let me wear skirts or shorts or sleevless & stuff. Not even at school ! (i go to an ALL-GIRLS ffs) yesterdat he started shouting at me cos i went out with him widout a jacket on.. i was wearin knee lengh jeans and a halfsleeved top. wtf? not like i was dressin like a slut! He started shouting at me the whole way. And when i talk to my mum shes like OK IL TALK TO HIM and she doesnt actali relle give a fuck. shes getting divorced apparently from him but wont move out the house. then she complains that my dad wont let her go. She doesnt care bout me much at all tbh (i know what im saying. and its not just cos im angry. its a long story). My dad interferes in EVERYTHING. my mate says summt to me on mssn and he goes WHY SHE SAYING THAT or summat.
Category: Love and Relationships |
3 answers
LOL why do i always fancy people out of my league?
I might be losing my mind here but watch this:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p8FypIX67xo&feature=player_embedded
aint Noctis adorable? :') (hes some game character of Final Fantasy. never played it but ever since i watched this video i
Category: Entertainment |
1 answers
midsummer_dreams's latest answers
Question: Problems, Problems, Problems. Part 1 (by ChelseaDianneDarling)
midsummer_dreams's answer: consider yourself lucky. some 13 yeared olds are like, totally flat. But yeah you WILL start growing. You can wear them bras that lift your boobs up if you like, or fake boobs. though you probs dont wanna fall that low ;]
& im 11, around 5'2 or 5'1 & i wiegh like 8 stones. idk how much that is in pounds but anyways, i know its overweight for me. most people my age are like 6 or 7 stones. but im not fat. and thats all i pretty much care about xD
Question: ok i am becoming emo help!!!!! (by crazy_izzi)
midsummer_dreams's answer: ookie dookie.
i have the same problem. whenever im mad, i just lose my mind and run off to the toilet and cut. im not thinking when im doing that, its just the only thing on my mind. I cant control it when im doing it, no matter ho hard i try. and now iv got like, cuts all over my left arm upto my elbow.
its so hard to hide. the gone now, and the scars arnt too bad. but the scabs were, and i would always have to wear longsleeves . my mum found out about it.
but anywaays, try to talk to someone. my mum was so upset about it that i started feeling dead guilty. and now i wanted to do it again a few hours ago cos i was angry but i managed to stop myself, i just remembered how guilty i was before.
so id say talk to an adult, maybe it'd help. get rid of all the razors and stuff from your house. i had a bad time too, + i still going throo it. right now when im mad, nothing helps. music, books etc. nothing. if anything, it makes it worse.
so i guess all i do is lie down and cry as much as i can. let it all out, & eventually i get tired and fall asleep and when i wake up, most the anger has gone. im still not that strong and sometimes i do snap, but blah whateverrr.
thing is, you just need to breatheeeee and let it all out. hurt other things rather than yourselffff. or just cry. (;
hpe i hlped.
x
Question: I'm really insecure about my breasts. (by Demi_Magg)
midsummer_dreams's answer: LOL im just like you. im 11 & a C (;
its irritating, i knw. but you gotta realise.. you might be insecure now cos you feel like the odd one out.. but trust me.. ur gonna be THANKFUL when your older.
your gonna get alot of jelousy ;P
people always tease me bout my boobs but i ignore em cos i know theyr just jelous. just wear the right sort of bra & avoid low necks
Question: I got my hair cut, finally. (by LuffyLoveLou)
midsummer_dreams's answer: love the hair. tbh i dont think theyr that short. you can tease them to make it look like you were trying to achieve that look. or i guess youl justhave to clip em to the side til they grow a bit x
Question: Picture Ideas, Makeup Ideas, Hair Ideas. (: (by ChelseaDianneDarling)
midsummer_dreams's answer: your gorgeous :O
& muahahha im the same. i take a trillion photos till i get one i like :'D
dress crazy. like wear layers and layers of shirts aha. like wear a bright full-sleeved one and then put a boobtube on it. a miniskirt with seriously ripped up jeans underneath. (my mum had a heartattack once when i literally destroyed my jeans. i ripped them too much. but it looked goooooooood ;] )
as for makeup. you can try alot of diff things with eyeshadows when your bored. you can have diff neon colours like pink, blue, green etc all onto one eye in layers (; (yer im all about layers aha) get a rainbow design on your eye (;
i always love drawing on myself tbh. fake tattoos. get one of thoseee. they're interesting for photos aha. & i love writing stuff on my knuckles like:
http://16.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_konidlUNke1qzynolo1_400.jpg
& tbh im a sucker @ poses. i relle suck @ em. i need help on that myself ahaaa, i just stand there like a corpse :/
well hpe i helped with the rest x
Question: What scene haircut would work with glasses? (by heavenly_demise)
midsummer_dreams's answer: http://www.hji.co.uk/hjimages/images/qhs832/hji/medium/2005-red-long.jpg
i had this. worked well for me (: i wear glasses too. but mine was messier. you can check em on my albumm (: i only have one pic with glasses on thoughh aha.
and lenses dont hurt. any age can wear em. im 11 & i wear em (: they can be hard to put in but they dont HURT.
and tbh any hairstyle could look good with glassess. it matters more whether it suits YOU than whether it suits glases.
gdluck x
Question: hi everyone im new (by hailey07)
midsummer_dreams's answer: yo there ;]
SAY HELLOOO TO YOUR NEW ADDICTION.
i literally used to live on this site, ere
;]
x
Question: wont let me shave (by _LissTheShopaholic_)
midsummer_dreams's answer: 1) your 'friends' shudnt make fun of you.
2) if you tell your mum they make fun of you, she'd say: "what sort of friends are they? make new friends!" & that'd be it.
id say talk her through. ask her why she wudnt let you. if youv started growing hair, then your not all that young. i started shaving legs when i was like 7 or 8. xD xD but i started everything early like periods, hair, boobs etc etc.
anyways, she should let you. if she doesnt, then just do it aniwai & try not to wear skirts of stuff infront of her. Even if you do get it trouble, well... like jessd said, id rather get in trouble tahn be made fun of (:
x
Question: Are These To Sluty To Wear ON Halloween ? (by x_Baby_Get_Shaky_x)
midsummer_dreams's answer: without tights or sumthing?
THEN YES DEFFO (:
esp for a 13 yeared old.
but thats upto you if you wnna wear 'em
Question: Hey just thought i shouldnt be such a stranger so.... (by BethanyJL)
midsummer_dreams's answer: im may. thats my nickname cos i hate my real name & my surname. Its a typical Iranian name, one thats hard to pronounce (im originally iranian). i live in england which is a greaaat placee.
im 11 haha, but guess i look + act older ? im pretty insane yano. iv no bros & sisters which sucks, coss my 'rents get too protective of me. im a real idiot.
XD




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