Ohh...drama...drama...drama...trust me you should definitely enjoy his kindness and stay his friend. I did the same thing and believe it or not the guy started to share more stuff with me than with his girlfriend and he was willing to give 'us' a chance. Guys love to have a girl around who's smart, funny and spares them from the stress of a relationship.....that's my opinion....I don't know......

Wow. That sucks. Well, what will you tell him when you stop being his friend? Stay his friend, because you'll regret it if you drop him. Who knows? Maybe one day they'll break up and you might have a chance. But maybe you'll find someone else... and even if you stop being his friend you'll still like him most likely. And it's not wrong to like him either. But just remember, don't get your hopes up. I doubt this helped, but good luck!

Ooo that's hard but I agree with callmeiris and texxassunlgiht. Ill stay his friend.. but don't break them up. If he chooses to be with you let him break up with her. Besides you can just stop ur feelings for him. Let him decide who he wants to b with.

I agree with the others..Stay his friend,hang out with him and see how things work out,just don't interfere between them.

If I were you I'd stop being his friend I know that might sound harsh or you might think 'that's to hard' or 'they all said to stay friends, makority rules!' or whatever but what are you getting from the friendship besides heart break in the end? He obviously must know you like him and since he flirts back he's pretty much saying 'I want you to like me and I like you too but I'm not giving up my girlfriend' I know that probably sounds really mean but I've been through it and it's true. You might be thinking 'No he's different!' But I would take time to think about your situation and where you think it will end up... You're always going to like him as long as you guys talk so why hurt yourself in the process if trying to stay his friend? I don't think a guy is is worth a girls tears and I think you should move on... AGAIN I'm sorry if I sound mean but I'm trying to save you the heartache that's waiting to happen... best of luck with whatever choice you make, staying friends or not! (:

If I were you I wouldn't tell him I liked him while he was still with his girlfriend because it could just ruin your friendship. Boys being boys the flirt with everyone. Wait and see how it turns out with this girlfriend and if it doesn't work out then's your chance. He sounds like just a crush and crush's come and go so in a little while you might like somebody different.. If his friendship means alot though keep quite for now and if it's meant to be trust me it will be someday xx

Sounds like a good idea. Then again they've been together over a year. I doubt that'd happen.

I don't think you're answer is mean, it's real. & my friend pretty much went through the same thing. So I understand.