me and my bf broke up some days ago, cause he has some big problems at home and he cant handle all this (gf, work..) and he always got pissed off cause of his problems and so i pissed him off even more by talking to him. this hurt me badly cause he just answered all angrily and stuff and im a very sensible person. now he wants me back he said hes living his life now and is not being influenced by his problems so he wouldnt get pissed at every small thing i tell him. but i'm really scared he breaks up a second time again just because of that. i really do love him and well he does too but should i really go back to him ?
He really shouldn't take his problems out on you, and if you are venting and you're needing him at a point in time of chaos then he really shouldn't get mad. I believe if you truly love him then you should talk to him about what really makes him mad and see if there is a way you guys can work it out. Also talk about different ways to have him tell you stuff about getting over things and how doing certain things could not make him so mad.or if its really EVERY LITTLE THING then maybe its too much and you just have to move on. Its really just talking it over and comprmising if possible. But in the end the true decision is your's alone. Good Luck hope things go for the better
I agree he shouldn't take his problems on you.I think he likes you,just he can't handle everything in the right way.You need to talk to him,let him know you love him,but he can't do that to you. You need to support him,but if it's really bad,and he gets mad about little things,then don't go back to him let him calm down.Just try to work it out,talk to him. Good luck!
I think if you love him and you think he loves you, give him another chance. He might just be stubborn, and I am too. I think he answered angrily b/c that's what happens when we(people who are hardheaded) get upset, just take our anger out on people, and once you start you don't go back(we don't like to go back or acknowledge that we're wrong). As selfish and horrible as it sounds, we like to get what we want. (luckily I can control myself more and when I do something wrong I go back and apologize) This is very bad for relationships, but we all usually have pretty good hearts. I really don't think I'm helping very much, but that's all I have to say.
maestro_97 asked:
23 Feb 2012
Should i go back to him ?
me and my bf broke up some days ago, cause he has some big problems at home and he cant handle all this (gf, work..) and he always got pissed off cause of his problems and so i pissed him off even more by talking to him. this hurt me badly cause he just answered all angrily and stuff and im a very sensible person. now he wants me back he said hes living his life now and is not being influenced by his problems so he wouldnt get pissed at every small thing i tell him. but i'm really scared he breaks up a second time again just because of that. i really do love him and well he does too but should i really go back to him ?