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callmeiris says:
Posted on 02 Oct 2012
I think you should give him and yourself a little time...feelings change after a while and you have time to think about whether you can take the risk of disappointment if you give him a chance.... if you're important for him...trust me he'll find a way to show his feelings....:)
emilyashi says:
Posted on 02 Oct 2012
yes
texxassunlight says:
Posted on 04 Oct 2012
Well, if that's what you want, then that's not what you're going to get. He's already proven that. But in the end it's your choice, and if you really want to, just do it. But if you want my advice, I would start off as friends, explain again why you broke up with him, then work your way slowly into the relationship, so you get to know each other a lot better, without feeling the pressure of girlfriend/boyfriend. So if you do start to date, and you know each other much better, he knows how to prove his feelings to you, you know his emotional boundaries, etc, etc. That way, you also have time to change your mind if you really don't feel like it's meant to be. Dating is a time where you discover what you want in a partner later on, you don't have to necessarily look only for "the one", because how do you know that's them? I hope this helped, but remember following your heart doesn't always end up good, because the heart will lead you in the wrong direction, with no reason or logic to guide it. Follow your brain, and do what's best for you. It's okay to let your heart "give its opinion" just don't let it get out of control. Good luck. And sorry about the philosophical stuff, just that might help.
metheromantic says:
Posted on 05 Oct 2012
Wooow...tough question...however I think you should see first that he's willing to actually make a change in his behavior and attitude towards your relationship....:)
iluvpandabears says:
Posted on 07 Oct 2012
He probably has a different love language then what your used to. He probably thinks that you should already know that he loves you. Does he ever blush? Thats a hint to seeing if he really truly does have affection for you. He may not show it, but wait on it a little bit. If he goes to another girl really fast, then no. If he tends to stay away from dating another girl for a while, then Yes. Be careful and Good Luck
janellieberlanga asked:
01 Oct 2012
Should I give my ex a 2nd chance? :/
i broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months because i felt like he didn't really put effort into our relationship. he said he really loved me and i believe him he's just not good at showing his feelings (like most guys) but i'm the kind of girl that needs to be reassured and he didn't do that :/ i really love and miss him, though. he was my first boyfriend and i know the feelings are still there between us he's just too shy and feels like he really hurt me so he's scared to do it again, What should i do?