Every girl deals with this lol. Well you should learn to accept yourself and look within yourself. You should acknowledge that there are SO MANY girls who are way worse than you. There are a lot of pretty girls and they are all insecure with themselves, it sucks. No one is perfect. When you look through magazines, etc, you should know that 99% of them are photoshoped. If you think you're fat despite everyone saying your not, then work out, eat healthy. Wishing for something won't happen unless you work for it. Also ask yourself what would you do if you looked worse? You should always be grateful because it can always get worse, and you should be more optimistic and focus on positive points about yourself. :)
ilovebenbruce asked:
11 Dec 2012
Self confidence?
Basically, I need some answers. I have this very specific mindset that I am fat and it's on my mind 24/7. Nothing is changing my mind. Nothing anyone can tell me will make me think other wise. I just feel so terrible because I see all these pretty skinny girls and think "why can't that be me?" why? I just can't seem to stop comparing myself to others. I could start from my feet and go to my head and tell you something wrong with every single feature of my body. Is there even a such thing as a self confident girl? How can I start thinking better of myself? It really depresses me, the way I feel about myself and I don't like it. Whenever I say anything to my mother about it, she only gets mad at me because of how I think. But she doesn't try to help. She's skinny, too. So it's not like she knows what I'm going through. My boyfriend, he's also skinny. Although he tells me I'm not fat, that doesn't help. How can I help this? :/