well seeing as im only 15 and am not experienced at ALL in relationships i will help the best i can..for one you say that you try to talk to him about it but he doesnt talk back? Not to sound mean but if there is any chance of you guys getting back together you have to ask yourself, Is he intrested back? I mean if he doesnt talk about it what makes you think he wants to get back with you? sorry but you have to look at it from all perspectives... Aloi why does he live with his horrible ex? he has to feel something for her to still live with her, but you should try to get him away from her when you can.. ask him to go to dinner or the movies or just anywahere to talk with you just so he's away from her so she has less of a chance to talk bad about you because he wont be there to listen. To get a guy, you just have to get them intrested. Flirt again, wear cute yet sexy clothes so it doesnt seem like your trying to hard but it will get him to notice.. or just do something fun like go somewhere you both think is alot of fun or do other things.. you know will get him intrested that he's willing to do. a guy i know always tells me (he's married) that guys and girls need to find someone fun in life, someone that you can laugh the rest of your life with.... after you guys have warmed up to eachother a bit again, ask him about your future with him.. this will take time and i hope this helped, good luck to you guys! by the way im not proof reading this and its dark so sorry for any spelling or grammer mistakes or whatever

So if he's living with this girl then it might be quite serious, trying to break them up would be difficult. Just think would trying to get him back help or not x

....you're sounding a tad obsessed over this guy..he doesn't seem to want to contact you, because trust me, if he wanted to, he would find a way. You may want him back, but that doesn't mean he wants you back. His recent ex-girlfriend doesn't go everywhere with him, so trust me on this one, if he wanted to contact you , he would. She, however, sounds as obsessed and overprotective as you of him, but probably to a more subtle degree which is why he can withstand living with her. However, if none of you are dating him, both of you are wrong, if you're trying to get him to be with you or keep him around . In the end, it's his choice as to who he wants to be with, just like it's your choice to continue obsessing over a guy who doesn't care by the looks of it. He won't come back, unless he absolutely wants to, and if he wanted to, he wouldn't be ignoring you.

I am far from obsessed. See, I didn't put the whole story in there.

I think he doesn't want you back.If he wants you back,he will brake up with his girl,and came back to you,cuz it's pretty much serious when he's living with this girl,so that could be a sign that he doesn't want you back.She sounds like a obsessed girl,it's not healthy to be like that.I think you should move on and try to be happy.

overall, leave it be! He doesn't want you back!!! He is with someone else and he is happy! I agree with everyone below

Well, it's clear that you should at least leave it be, like most people have pointed out. It's not good for you, and he doesn't seem to care enough about you to try to want you back. If there is more to the story, it's really best that you say it, but at this point, most people here (the older ladies , including myself) agree that he doesn't seem to want you back..do try your best to move on and get yourself someone who is worth your time and who wants you as much as you want him.

He's not happy and that is my point. He does want me back, I am asking how to do it and asking how do i tell him how I feel!