How can we advise you , if we don't know what you look like. I'm almost certain going to blonde, especially to almost a platinum, white blonde, ends up making your hair look terrible (unless you have the money and time to constantly maintain it and keep it healthy), although in really low quality pictures it may look nice. The point is, we've no idea how you look like so we can't really tell you what we think may look nice on you.

I've probably got the same hair and problem as you :).
I'm thinking of getting a Hayley William's type hair cut - scruffy looking layers and side bangs. Or descending bangs, short on one side, getting longer as they go to the other side.