I've been talking to this guy for two years now. It was a rough road, but we are mostly together. He has some issues with mental health and in his personal life that he needs to resolve before we're ready to become serious, but we are very much in love and very happy together. Here's the thing though. He won't have sex with me. He's been with other girls, and in fact he slept with someone back in August (I found out in February, and that is a LONG story). But for some reason, he won't sleep with me. He says that it's because his feelings regarding sex are muddled and when (if) we do it, he wants it to be special and bring us closer together. However, I feel like he's not attracted to me or isn't turned on by me. I feel like something is wrong with me, rather than with him, but he doesn't have the heart to tell me. I need the physical affection, I want to have sex, and I am having a hard time waiting. I mean, we're both grown, neither is a virgin, and are very much in love.