So my question is what would u do if he cheated? and im sure if he did cheat he will deny it so would you believe what he says or not? i lovehim so so much and i ddont want to lose him he is a great guy! but if he did cheat should i forgive him and go see him and give him sex and da whole deal? btw we have had sex before lol i just love him so much!!!

Hm. Maybe it was a bruise? But if it was a hickey....I would question him about it. That's serious. Maybe it's because he's desperate and really wants to see you. Some men get that way when they miss who they really love and they become desperate and act as if another girl is you. They'll miss your kisses, so they'll lay a kiss on another girl. I would forgive. I'm just saying. If he says sorry a million times, I would give him a 2nd chance. I honestly would. It's a hickey...not AIDS or...I dunno! A hickey isn't so bad. At least I don't think it is. But, I would forgivee. Well, good luck. (:

Like Zoe said maybe it was a bruise..But if it wasn't they ofc ask him,and if he cheated on you I say break up,one thing you never do is CHEAT! No matter how far away you are,and if you do forgive him the trust is broken plus he lives far away,so you'll question his loyalty and be on the edge all the time..See what your cousin say,and ask him about it,if he cheated move on,it will be hard but it's better that way. The trust is very important thing,how would you trust him again?
But that is me,I don't forgive cheating,I'm one guy girl and I except the same in the return!

Dragana is right. If it's just a bruise, let it slide. People get bruises. But cheating is not okay. If he cheated on you, do not give him a second chance because he'll get the impression that he'll never get in trouble and he'll do it again and again. In that case, how could you ever know exactly how far he's gone with any girl who isn't you? I don't think you should forgive him.

Well, first thing's first. DNP: Do Not Panic. It could just be a slight bruise from rough housing with the boys. If it is a hicki, I would advise that you take a break from him because he's obviously taken a break from you. And plus, that will give you time to think about the whole situation. But don't do anything irrational. I know what it's like to get hurt, and I know it's not fun at all, but it could still possibly be a bruise. If in the case of it being just a bruise, let it slide and tell him you were just worried, which isn't lying at all because you sound completely terrified, deary :/

dear...you should try to believe your instinct :)
coz nomatter what i said or any other girls out there...you are the one who feel it.
but fyi....if i love some one so much...i will do anything to contact him.coz relationship without communication is none.

i dont know what to do or to believe him or not :(((

Yeah. Maybe my answer wasn't all that good because now I'm starting to believe Caslynn and Dragana. :/ Hm.

I agree.
I wish I knew how to delete my answer. -___-

I agree.