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pink_pinky says:
Posted on 21 Mar 2012
Deep down i wanna wait until i reach my goal but all of this makes me feel like i dont wanna wait....please give me some advice....also on how to be around his baby and not feel sad becuz i havent been around her since she has been born(6 months now) cuz i still cry, it still hurts....but i wanna be in her life. Thanks in advance
caslynn says:
Posted on 23 Mar 2012
Do you feel like you don't want to wait because you aren't sure you can trust him? It sounds like you think that if you have a child, he'll be faithful to you forever, so you should cut to the quick and make it happen. But that isn't the right reason at all to have a baby. You should be in a loving and stable environment. if that means you have to wait awhile, then wait. In the meantime, you could consider babysitting. You'd be able to play with and love children and not have to worry about any of the risks you'd face having a baby with your current boyfriend.
pink_pinky asked:
21 Mar 2012
Getting pregnant has been on my mind ALOT lately but i dont really like the reasons???
Ok so from the beginning ( to cut along story short) my boyfriend cheated on me and got his ex pregnant! No one is perfect and like always they are gonna say they are sorry,( well i gave him a second chance and i hope you all can still help me out) we love each other very much and he shows me that he does his actions tell it all. The baby is 6 months old now so its still fresh a bit and i will be honest i havent fully gotten over everything but he is trying his best to let me be able to trust him again. Since we are moving on my plan was to always get pregnant when im 25/ 6 right now im 24 and ive started saving towards a baby i just opened an account for him/ her that we both are saving in, i dont know if its insecurity, jealousy or what but lately ive been feeling like i wanna get pregnant now it has gotten so serious that ive gone online looking at baby clothes, shoes, cribs etc. We talked about it and he told me he wanna make me happy so next year. Am i jealous or something? more