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jackie_walsh says:
Posted on 05 Dec 2011
Sweetie, I don't know how old you are but I think you sound too young to be talking about motels and stuff. And, you know that "foreplay" means what it say. It comes BEFORE something else. Personally, I think you should back off a bit until you're older. BUT, if you continue to do this "foreplay," you need to be sure that either you or him (or both of you) are using protection. Okay?
dragana94 says:
Posted on 05 Dec 2011
From what he said he isn't ready yet,so u can't do it by yourself :D Like Jackie said,for motels you're young,u need to wait until u're both ready.But if u think u can;t control yourself then don't do it,and you need to use protection if u want to go all the way.
chipmonkcheekslexi says:
Posted on 08 Dec 2011
you should only do it unless you are truly ready but you should respet him and just enjoy the foreplay still ask him why he doesnt want to do it!
veronicanelson says:
Posted on 27 Dec 2011
i personally think you guys should be sticking around to just making out for a while, until it's clear to you what exactly you both want. the only people that can help you decide this are you and your boyfriend. talk to him about it more. be open minded and find reasons to do it and not to do it. when you've cleared yourself from questions, the only thing left is whether you both want it.
gee_jade asked:
05 Dec 2011
should i do it?
okay first of all for the protection of my cousin, i'm not gee_jade. so anyway, i don't know if i should do it or not. my boyfriend always says no but i'm the one who always gets tempted. i've asked him multiple times to check in at a motel. he says if we do, we're not having sex, we're just going to touch but not really go all the way.....you know, foreplay. but i'm unsure of it, what if his male hormones kick in? what if i can't control myself? should i do it or not? thanks