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01 Jan 2012
Ok, so I wasnt able to celebrate new years with my boyfriend because I'm visiting family for the holidays a couple states away. He kept saying how sad he was that he wasnt able to kiss me for the new year. I thought we were determined to at least kind of celebrate together... so when 12:00 hit, I had a text message prepared saying something like happy new year, I'm sorry we weren't able to spend this one together, but I'm looking forward to 2012 with you and hopefully the new years after that! But he didn't even think to send anything to me or even respond until 15 minutes afterward! I felt really hurt and like he didn't care but he got offended and was like sorry I'm celebrating with my friends right now. Even now I'm trying to explain to him that I was just hurt and thought he would care but he still is acting all sarcastic and being like sorry I'm a bad bf and apparently don't care about you. I just don't get it. And Mostly I feel hurt. But am I overreacting a little? :(
Posted on 01 Jan 2012
no hunz im kinda goin thru the same situation....and u are most definitely not overreacting.....tlk 2 him and say haw u feel
No of course not, I know how you feel, at a new years eve party, a couple of years ago, that happened 2 me, its okay he was proberly just busy, or something happened with his phone, dw ur nt overreacting though i know how it feels so dont worry, I know you may feel hurt but try and explain it 2 him okay??? x Hope this helps xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i think you are over reacting. Yes, you have to understand that he got sad that you weren't there but he is with friends and family also so he is also spending time with them. Even if he didn't text til 15 min after, he was probably calling other family or celebrating with his own. And you said you had a text message "prepared". Did you ever send it? Because if you didn't that is probably didn't right one to you (don't exclude the possibility that he was with family though). Yes in a relationship, it is great to be together on new years, but you can't be tied to the hip. He was with his friends, he has a right to, right? What if you were hanging out with your friends and he told you "why don't you text me now? did i do something?" and you would reply "i am with my friends". In a relationship you gotta be independent. If he didn't text you exactly at midnight so what? He was with his friends. He is probably upset that you are acting like this when he is simply trying to celebrate with friends. You are not the only person important in his life. And you were states away, and his friends were right there with him. Why not him celebrate with his close friends and celebrate a new year? He texted you when he got the chance! You gotta know that there has to be independence in a relationship and he has that and you gotta learn to have that too especially when he is with friends and family. Sorry if this sounded harsh but it is my opinion XOXO
Posted on 02 Jan 2012
well, i dont agree with below but i do think your over reacting about the 15 minutes thing.. thats not that bad... but if he was being sarcastic and all after thats not nice..i think when you guys see eachother again talk about it, say sorry, and get over it.. lifes to short.. you never know what could happen. good luck (:
I think u're a little bit.About that 15 min.thing..He was celebrating,how he could see the massage right away,maybe he was toasting with his friends,and his phone was in his jacket,you know..I don't think it's because he didn't want to respond.
And he's also hurt,that's why he's acting sarcastic...You gonna work out :)
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