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zebrapanda

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zebrapanda asked:

02 May 2011

Help with my friend please?

So one of my great friends recently got a boyfriend 2 months ago. She never stopped talking about him and truthfully, I was happy for her and thought that it was just a stage , since this is her first relationship and she should totally be excited! However, it started to get a bit extreme. Every time on the phone, the topic was always the same, and even when I changed the subject she wouldn't even put any effort to at least PRETEND to care! She never calls me, and if I ever want someone to lean on or just talk to, I'm always the one to call her and so it really seems like if she chooses not to talk to me. Recently she logged onto Facebook and I started up a chat and she would barely respond and said 'I know it seems like I'm avoiding you, but I g2g sorry.' Maybe I'm being dramatic, but what I don't understand is that if you're going to log onto a social networking site, wouldn't you expect people to socialize with you? She acts the same to our other friend we all switched schools this

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zebrapanda

zebrapanda says:

Posted on 02 May 2011

Year, and before that we were inseperatable. Should I just move on? Thx and sorry for such a long question.

vampkisses

vampkisses says:

Posted on 02 May 2011

well, i would try talking to her about it again just being like hey it seems like youve been ignoring me you never wanna talk and when you do its about your boyfriend, im happy for you and everything but it just seems like were not friends anymore.... and just see where it goes from there... good luck i hope you guys work it out and start talking again!

davie2010

davie2010 says:

Posted on 02 May 2011

i am going through the same think with my friend right now... and to make it worse... she is dating this guy who I don't like at all.... So right now I have just stopped trying to communicate with her...and am just waiting to see what she will do...but its hard..

shinja

shinja says:

Posted on 02 May 2011

I might not be the best to answer this, but honestly in your situation I would just stop trying, if she doesn't want to talk, let her be. Like I said, I am probably not the best to listen too, but I have a rule, I am nobodys puppy(I know weird choice of words :P), I am not going to follow anyone around and beg for their attention, if they aren't interested in my friendship, then I rather be alone then following them around. And for a long time I was alone, but now I have some of the best friends you could ever have.
Maybe she'll come back around, but I wouldn't waste my time until then.
Take my advice or leave it, it's just my option on the matter.

gtan88

gtan88 says:

Posted on 12 May 2011

shes just overexcited or is really happy about her relationship. you could give her some time or tell her that you've been noticing that since she started this relationship its like your friendship doesnt matter.... Hope this helps :)

zebrapanda

zebrapanda says:

Posted on 02 May 2011

Wow thx so much!

shinja

shinja says:

Posted on 02 May 2011

I mean of course, you should confront her about it. But if things don't get better, I would just let it go for now.

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