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yoshi_baybee asked:

13 Oct 2009

the ex

well for one thing he lives in another state. and after he started going out with his BESTFRIEND(girl) i got really mad cause i was still trying to get back with him (idk why anymore) so the last words i ever told him (on im) were your an a#% and that was in july.time has passes as u all know and i miss him.but not in a bf way but just as a person 2 talk with. me & his gf don't get along whatsoever.i was thinking of texting him.i got a new number and he doesn't have it. but what you guys think?should i? idk i'm really confused of what might happen like his gf will find out but the think is i'm NOT trying to get him back or anything like that. u think he will not wanna talk with me? we were 2gether for 10mnths and only seen eachother once. "/ he's with his current gf 3 mnths already. so please advice!! and plus i'm not scared of his gf i just don't want problems cause you know how us girls react with the ex contacting. soooo

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auri

auri says:

Posted on 13 Oct 2009

Sure =} i mean as long as your being friendly and clearly hint that its nothing more. If she has a problem with it...then so what! If hes your friend then it shouldnt matter. and its okay to miss him, like once your used to something and its taken away you do start missing it, and i dont see why there would be a problem with just saying hi =]

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 14 Oct 2009

I wouldn't text him... just out of repect to his new girlfriend. I think if you just wanted to say hi and see how he is doing I think you should email him. so that you can say more and it seems more formal than a text... like it is more sincere. And also so his gf won't get too bothered if he shows her his text from you.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 14 Oct 2009

so you know who she is? can you send a msg to her first asking for her concent tell her what you said here and tell her you won't talk to him unless she say's it's ok.



but i would stay away from it all together. it can cause problems and there is a good chance she would say no anyway. eitherway it's alright to move on and focuse on the future instead of on the past

jacqueline

jacqueline says:

Posted on 14 Oct 2009

id say don't text him. if its an ex, than let him stay an ex and nothing more. im pretty sure you had your reason to break up. and another thing im pretty sure about is that you have some other people to talk with. just try not to step back.. but step forward. move on.

i know its hard, i always feel like texting to exs but you have to keep it strong. unless you want something more from him. than go on, and you can even call him. :thumbup:

bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 14 Oct 2009

If i was you id just text him! but dont be all flirty and stuff like that jsut be chill and nice like friends are. if his girl gets mad because hes friends with you again well thats his problem not yours cause i mean hes the one talking to you, its not like your making him talk to you!. and if she does start getting on your case just ignore her, aint even worth the trouble. So id go ahead and try being his friend again:)

amaay

amaay says:

Posted on 14 Oct 2009

maybe you could ask his girlfriend first if she wouldn't mind it. or maybe you should just go ahead, don't be filrty, maybe to start off with you could just say 'hey, how you doing?' or something along those lines(:

xx

yoshi_baybee

yoshi_baybee says:

Posted on 14 Oct 2009

Thanks!!(:

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