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Shelby Moore

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i am...SEvenTeen...i have a boyfriend of three and a HALF years...i'm trying to be pretty but i'm not...and that's about all there is to it. i dance...CONSTANTLY...it's my life, esp. during competition season...but SOMEHOW i'm still FAT.>:(

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xxx_wish_i_were_xxx asked:

04 Mar 2009

i don't think my boyfriend finds me attractive/hott anymore...

my boyfriend and i have been dating for three and a half years...i am not an ugly person...but i don't take as good of care of myself and my appearance...i've gained some weight...but the thing is...i don't think my boyfriend finds me attractive anymore...like not that he thinks i'm ugly...because he doesn't, but i don't think he is AS PHYSICALLY attracted to me...PLEASE HELP...how can i go back to being pretty (or even GORGEOUS) again and get things back (or better) than how they were...

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georgie_babbs

georgie_babbs says:

Posted on 04 Mar 2009

I'm sure you're just over-reacting, It's what inside that counts, and i'm sure you're beautiful.. Buttt...

If you really are concerned, push yourself.

But not too hard!

Exercise more

Take vitimins to help with your hair skin and nails..

Hold your head up high and tell yourself you are beauitful.. it's a great way to get a higher self esteme



After you have your perfect figure and stuff, treat yourself to some new clothes to flaunt it :)



Go Girlllll :)

diemannequin

diemannequin says:

Posted on 04 Mar 2009

just adding to what Georgie_Babbs had to say, maybe try a new haircut with some highlights.

3nir

3nir says:

Posted on 04 Mar 2009

You already know what to do. List the things you want to change.

lavalley

lavalley says:

Posted on 04 Mar 2009

this is how i lost my bf

its hard to make the same person

fnd you just as attractive as they used to

try a new haircut, cute outfits (maybe low cut lol)

and do little things because change will keep him interested.

whether it be a new makeup choice or a totally new haircut

change will make him see something new that he hasn't before.

patrick

patrick says:

Posted on 04 Mar 2009

This is what happened to me, although. We weren't dating. Right before I thought he was gonna ask me out, he apperently lost interest. I'm sorry for your situation.



Be spontanious, just not, TOO, spontanious.

(listen to Gorgie_babbs ^_^ :thumbup:)

samantha_scelestic

samantha_scelestic says:

Posted on 06 Mar 2009

just be spontaneous and fun. after so long, it's easy to fall into a schedule. Break it! instead of dinner first tonight, eat desert! or instead of going to a movie, go to the park late at night. or go to a concert that is a different type of music then you both normally listen to. Remember to take care of yourself and deffinatly walk into every place thinking haw amazing you are. it shows. and if your boyfriend is dumb and cant see it, someone else can. but i think you just need a different routine. fight the ordinary lol. good luck! oh depending on your age, take belly dancing. it makes life more exciting ;)

kayleighandcharlotte

kayleighandcharlotte says:

Posted on 07 Mar 2009

personally i dont think u should change what u look like, u shouldnt change the way u look for people, u should make urself different ! if he didnt find u attractive he would of ended it by now, but as he hasnt, shows that ur not ugly, and itsd just worries that ur feeling, what everyone else gets :)

kayzxxx

kayzxxx says:

Posted on 23 Mar 2009

Hey, that happens to us all! I've been going with my other half for almost 3 years and we're sooo comfy together. It doesn't matter so much how you look anymore, even if that is what caught his eye.

I can wear no make up and his baggy clothes and feel fine about it, of course just lazying around the house!



But if it really bothers you, start with a new hair doo. That should make you feel fabulous straight away!!

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