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Nikki Sams




29 Sep 1994

i'm nikki. i'm from good ol' alabama,, well its not thaaat good....hehe:]
so i'm not that that active in anything i dont have much to say on that...sorryX)
i guess the basics are:
-im 15
-i wold die without my friends, phone, and my ipod
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xxsketchyxx asked:

08 Feb 2010

low self

for the longest time i've had a really low self esteem. i've been thinking that i'm ugly and fat and i've tried not to think so, but i just cant seem to. since i have such a low self esteem i dont act myself around people that i dont know and im generally really shy. and the fact that i dont have as big of a friend circle as some of my other friends makes me think worse of myself... i never know what to talk about to new people and i get really nervous around people im not particularly(probably spelled that wrong) close to. i just want to know how to help me see better in myself and maybe some pointers on how to be not so..shy? please help:/



jaydde_woodrow says:

Posted on 08 Feb 2010

message me and we will talk if you want :-)


barbipixi says:

Posted on 08 Feb 2010

almost every girl goes through things like that especially when you're young and you feel you're different and you want to be like everyone else

i didn't have ANY guys interested in me till i was 17

i was 5'5" 183lbs for a while

i only had 2 really good friends most of school

my self esteem was never really that bad with how i looked i thought i was cute i didn't think about what others may have thought of me.

and i didn't worry about guys not asking me out cause i was happy with my friends and online buds

having self esteem really comes from liking who you are and knowing the people around you like you for that too. you're important in your own way and you matter to yourself and all the people around you.

and when i learned to let go of the shy part of what other's would think about me if they knew more about me then i was so much more happy. i had tons of friends in 11th and 12th grade and it was so fun dressing how i felt and speaking up when i had a thought lol


vampkisses says:

Posted on 08 Feb 2010

i have really low self esteem too and im really shy i hate this about myself but i try to make friends with my friends' friends its alot easier then just going up to some stranger and i try not to act different cause i would rather have someone hate me for who i am then like me for who im not


shysparrow13 says:

Posted on 08 Feb 2010

me too! but, your beautiful just the way you are and you need to know that. :))


shysparrow13 says:

Posted on 08 Feb 2010

sorry. that answer sucked.


_riah_ says:

Posted on 08 Feb 2010

I used to have terrible self esteem.

You just gotta realize that your want for it to be better is more than the want to tear yourself down...that's a good place to start.

It is not uncommon for girls to feel this way, it is super common!

You have to start appreciating what makes you unique. I know it sounds lame, but it is totally true. Once you can begin to appreciate your special qualities, the more on your way to having better confidence you are. Like, I have a weird and wide button nose, do I hate it? No. I am glad that it makes me special : )

Also you gotta figure out that you have the ability to be so happy in life. You can be so super happy but being self concious can really set you back. Once you love yourself, it's like you have such a huge happy meter. haha! Seriously, though. : )

About the shy thing, I used to also be shy and there is really no other way to say this other than: you just gotta put yourself out there a little more. Shyness cannot be helped by being a recluse. Join in on conversations more, smile at people in the helps with self esteem too.

Feel free to message me if you want to. Hope I helped you, and good luck!

: )




xx_marniee_xx says:

Posted on 25 Jan 2011

your not ugly or fat boys willlove you for the way you are , so just express yourself and remember that diversity between people is what makes you unique ! :) xx

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