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xxsketchyxx asked:

18 Dec 2010

I really need help..

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now, and I noticed that he is trying to get a little more...touchy? (I don't want to be too graphic, but he's always trying to stick his hands down my pants and up my shirt, but he'll stop if I pull his hand away). The only problem with that is I REALLY don't want to do any of that right now. I guess I'm just not ready for all of that just yet. I just have NO clue how to tell him that I don't want him to do that stuff. I have plenty of reasons to feel the way I feel about..that stuff but I just...I don't know:/

Can anyone PLEASE give me ideas on how to tell him without coming across too....blaaah(haha I didn't know the right word for it)?

I would REALLY REALLY REALLY appreciate it so much!

This is kind of a hard thing for me to talk about for some reason, and I just really don't want to lead him on thinking that it's...alright...

Thank you SO much!

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krista090

krista090 says:

Posted on 18 Dec 2010

find a time when you two are just talking, and bring up the topic and tell him that you don't feel ready to have sex/get more intimate than you're getting for now.

danyooz

danyooz says:

Posted on 18 Dec 2010

Hey Sketchyy :)
This is what you do, If your boyfriend gets to touchy again just pull back and tell him i don't feel comfortable doing this right now. Please for me can we wait awhile ? :) Don't make him feel awkward or embarrassed just smile and say it easily. Hope i Helped :) :) xxxx

firefox_12

firefox_12 says:

Posted on 18 Dec 2010

next time he does that do what danyooz and krista090 say, but if this gets too repetitive after that, slap him. If he's just really stupid enough to keep on... being like that, he's gotta get the point sometime or other and if it's really irritating you that much (don't worry your not alone i would feel like that too) he deserves a nice sharp slap across the face.

sena95

sena95 says:

Posted on 18 Dec 2010

Be honest and tell him that you are not ready if he understood then he is a keeper if he didnt then tell him to Fuck off !

xxxscreamingmaydayxxx

xxxscreamingmaydayxxx says:

Posted on 19 Dec 2010

The others pretty much said it all, but I was in the same boat as you...and, honestly, If you just come out with it and tell him, if he is really worth your time he will accept it...
Hope this helped xx

davie2010

davie2010 says:

Posted on 20 Dec 2010

all good advice.... i would totally agree and just add that its really important to be very clear in what you say..in other words.. don't use any hard to understand words or say it in a what which is hard to understand or can be taken differently....

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