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xxin_love_with_chrisxx asked:

27 Jun 2009

AM i fat?

My mother says i am... I am 5'4 1/2 and i weigh 204 pds... My boyfriend/fiance says i am beautiful.... but i have stretch marks every where and i have 42DD boobs..... i hate myself and so do alot of other people.... what do you think?



amaay says:

Posted on 27 Jun 2009

as long as you are happy with yourseelf, then ignoree the comments that you don't like! :]



gbpkid says:

Posted on 27 Jun 2009

i think the answer below me wasnt right, since you say you hate yourself.

tbh you dont sound fat, maybe a little chubby (dont worry i am too :D)

tbh you have to just accept yourself and love yourself for who you are. i have streach marks and i love them, haha, they're a sign of the fact i have grown up, become a woman, lol :)

i think there is too much pressure on women to be skinny these days, just embrace who you are, your gorgeous! :D xxx


jessd says:

Posted on 27 Jun 2009

like the person below me said you dont sound fat but chubby.. same here !.. my brother tells me if your sorry for yourself than do something about it..

Build your confinced up..

and what do you got to worry about. you got the love of your life and he loves you for who you love and not for what you look like. you should be happy for thats. most men are not like that.. good luck


aollyruby says:

Posted on 27 Jun 2009

You definitely are fat. According to your BMI (which isn't flawless, but can give a good idea to people who are not very athletic and/or muscular) you are obese.

Just so you know though, your boyfriend/fiance CAN think you are beautiful even if you are fat. If he is in love with you, I hope he thinks you are beautiful inside and out.

It is not healthy, nor is it helpful to hate yourself. If you hate yourself because of the way you look then do something about it. You should lose weight to be healthy before anything else, you don't have to be super thin, but if you lose weight to be healthy you will more likely end up feeling better about yourself, rather than losing weight by hating yourself and depriving yourself unrealistically.


undeadxprincess says:

Posted on 27 Jun 2009

I agree with everyone here. Love yourself for who you are, not for what you want to be. A wise woman once told me that, she is my mother. My mother goes throught the same problem, except she is a lot heavier than you. She didn't like her appearence, so she went on a diet. She didn't like her eating habbits, so she changed them. I personally think that you are a beautiful lucky person. Not everyone can look like a movie star, but i would never want to be a movie star, because they don't know what it is to live a real life. Consider yourself lucky, you have the love of your life, who loves you unconditionally, inside and out. Don't hate yourself, because that will get you no where. If you think you need a change, change for yourself, not for the people around you. Love your life, love others, love yourself. Because you are beautiful :)


xxin_love_with_chrisxx says:

Posted on 27 Jun 2009

what does tbh mean?:-? so i am fat... we are also trying to get pregnant! is that a problem with my weight? i know i am obese now.... and almost borderline to diabetes.....(sp?) i have cut all the sodas out... only water and tea i lost 4 pds in a week w/o doing anything... we are scared too much exercise will make it even more impossible to have a baby... we have tried for a month now once a day almost evry other day... bad? ummm..... i also have to switch to wheat bread.... and write down everything i eat.... X( how am i doing?


undeadxprincess says:

Posted on 27 Jun 2009

tbh means "to be honest" :] I'm not really sure about the pregnancy thing but the best thing you can do is set up a doctors appointment and discuss it with a professional. :]


barbipixi says:

Posted on 28 Jun 2009

first you can check out my blog in the weight folder for lots of tips and what i do

second unless a dr tells you your obease don't worry about that

and being overweight can hinder your chances of having a baby but i don't think you're to that point.

just eat healty and do some cardio (running or even walking 3nights a week for 30mins is enough)

make good food choices when you go out to eat (grilled or baked or steamed foods) chicken is better than beef and go for a baked potato or side salad instead of fries

skip the soda and get tea or lemonaid (also those drink flavoring packet for your water can be used if you just get water at a resturant)

and remember portions, when eating at home make a plate that looks about the size of your stomach. you can fill the plate that's perfectly fine but don't get heaping spoonfuls just a few spoonfuls and it's still ok to finish your plate

if your still hungry during the day eat fruits and veggies they take more energy to eat than they give you

have lots of these on hand : P


jules924 says:

Posted on 28 Jun 2009

everyone wants to be smaller. no matter how you look, you will ALWAYS want to look different. you have someone in your life who thinks you are beautiful AND you get to marry this person. be happy with yourself and forget your mom!! i bet you she isnt lookin too hott but you are still at an age where you can get to a healthy weight a lot faster and show her up =] i would just see a nutritionist about a healthier lifestyle, it sounds like you are at an unhealthier weight, but it doesnt mean you are fat. you just dont want to let it get out of hand to the point where your health is at risk.

good luck!!


paramoreroxxxx says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2009

well truth is everyone wants to be smaller, as long as your happy with yourself, that's all that really matters..but if you're unhappy with it then maybe try becoming a member to your local gym, or simply walk more, and try to avoid sweets and salty foods..cutting out bad habbits can help tremendously in the long steps, lol. personally i don't think you should worry, yer gorgeous *(: --hope i helped!

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