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xhoneybeex asked:

10 Aug 2010

Please help, I'm nervous and scared and i don't think this is right

I'm trying out for the volleyball team at my high school. I'm going to be a freshman. And I heard about this thing called invitationals which is basically a non violent form of hazing. Apparently the JV girls kidnap you at like 3 in the morning and dress you up in ridiculous outfits and make up, make you go to school like that and do stupid things throughout the day. I DON'T want this to happen to me and I'm so worried if I get on the team theres no way of avoiding it. I'm considering not trying out because I don't want it to hapen to me. Please help I have no idea what to do.



xbigsexyhairx says:

Posted on 10 Aug 2010

Well.. if you want to be on the team go for it! Otherwise you will regret not trying out! And if you don't make it you don't have to worry about it. But if that does happen to you, remember people know that is why you are dressed funny and act all weird.. and if people don't already know about it tell them, that will avoid a lot of embarrassment, but don't not try out because of that. Hey, something good could come out of it!


barbipixi says:

Posted on 11 Aug 2010

talk to the coach. if they won't listen then you can talk to another teacher

you can probly get by w/o going through it but i'll say you won't have the respect of your team cause they probly all went through the same things.

i would say you can have fun with it and go with it and everyone at school will know it's only cause the team and you don't normally go to school like that. but i think it's crazy if they think my parents would let anyone into my house at 3am to kidnap me. sorry but they'd have to wait till after i woke up and missed the bus


gbpkid says:

Posted on 11 Aug 2010

Ok so im english and have never heard of this, but im sure if this happens every year then everyone is used to it and nobody thinks anything of it yano? Everyones been in & will be in the same boat - and cause of that they'll probably quite nice about it. Although, considdering as this sounds like something out of some teen movie, i recon it's just a massive tall story. go try out, and good luck with that im sure you'l do awsome, but dont worry about it the hazing thingie, im sure its just a lie. xoxo


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 11 Aug 2010

yeah, if this is something you've just heard then it's pretty much exaggerated if you ask me. and barbi's right, parents will surely not allow kids into their house at 3am lest they break in or something--which is a serious offense. i say go ahead and try out. don't worry so much bout it. whatever it is you'd have to go through, i'm sure you can get by just fine! good luck!

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