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wendysdaughter asked:

07 Jun 2010

Gay, Should it be allowed?

I know, random but when I was listening to Mika on youtube there were a lot of comments mentioning sexuallaty. Me being bisexual my self, I hate it when people say its not okay to be gay. Because its against god. I am sorry to say this but people were getting married before Christain beliefs, and other regligions get married and asthiest get married so why can't gays? Any way another thing is people that just hate them. People are going to be different than you forever, get over it! WHat are you going to do if someone you work with or for is gay, you gonna quit? It is pointless. More inporently what about when people say "thats so gay?" It personally kinda confuses me. Like my friend said his computer was acting gay, so I said since when can computers sleep with others!

Give me your opinion please so I know what people think. Even if you are strongly againist gays please just tell why.

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ninja_nikki

ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 09 Jun 2010

Man I think it's bull crap that people are acting like Christians are the only one who think being gay is a bad thing. I am a Christian and personally I don't think it's right, but I'm not going to go around and say "Oh you are going to hell, because your gay." I think everybody should be treated right, but there is no reason why homosexuals have to go and show it off. They have gay pride parades, but they don't have straight pride parades. Gays just like to flaunt it off and there is NO reason to. Let me ask you this....what is sex mainly for? It is to pro-create! How can two women or two men pro-create? Sex is a special thing that's supposed to be for a man and a woman. It's like a puzzle both pieces fit perfectly together. I also think it is hilarious how it is okay to talk about being gay in school, but you can talk about your religion in school, particularly Christianity. Another thing, I think it is hilarious how people say they were "born gay". You aren't born gay....Let's say for example a girl is a lesbian and always wants to have sex with girls. Okay, you’re born that way then. So, then....a guy who wants to have sex with a poor innocent baby or animal was born that way to then right? No, you make your own decisions and people who are gay have made that choice.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

i think everyone has your own choices to make in this world and if you believe in god you have to know he loves you no matter what and your human you're suppose to make your own choices or he wouldn't have giving you free will and if you don't believe in god then i just believe you're suppose to respect yourself and give others the same opportunity



i don't hate i just ask you don't try and change me and i will give you the same curtsy. we're all the same i'm no better than anyone else, and i know i'm a good person and i appreciate others who have those standards.

bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

Its a matter of opinion and everyone is entitled to it. It plays on both sides, straights think its weird and call it out and gays seem to have the need to push what they think on everybody else. so it goes both ways. For me personally, ive been more bantering by gays than seen straights bantering gays. They ask you wat you think about gays and i answer truthful that i dont think its right and they start attacking me from no where just cause i dont agree with them! So it goes both ways. You cant complain about one problem without the other one coming up too.

jwlover4ev

jwlover4ev says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

Ok so in my religion it says that homosexuality is unnatural. If girls/boys were made to romantically love each other why were thy built with the same parts? It says that homosexuality is wrong in every way although we must treat these people kindly.

bear14

bear14 says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

well i think it's wrong to say that being gay/lesbian is bad. I support it. it's not like that person chose to do it. and as for their religion? let's say there's a christian, but he's gay....it's not his fault for either, he didn't ask to be christian or gay..he was BORN with it. i have absolutely no problem with gay/lesbian people...i just have a slight problem when they get a bit too intimate in public (but i have the same problem when straight people do it too, so it's not just against them).



if you are gay/lesbian, all the power to you and be proud! :)

mistress1209

mistress1209 says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

people don't choose to be gay.. so for me, they should be treated like everybody else. It's just sad that religion dictates that homosexuality is immoral. even worse, some cultures condemn it. i also believe that gays and lesbians are entitled to the same rights as heterosexuals--including sex and marriage.

gosupermodel_is_back

gosupermodel_is_back says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

it's lazbine who you'd sayy sleep together. Gays normally dress like the oppsite sex or act like it.



There was never a such thing as lasbinee (but there are sum people who are naturally gay- i.e u^^- not being rude or anyfinn),, and people dunt feel that at all-- u just want attention. And all these silly lasbine thigns hve all beinn made upp it's a crap shit and whoever is theyy hve noo lifee.

Soo u can decide which one u r-- if u've slept with a a boy (EWWW) or hve made any other physical attraction thenn yes u r a LASBINE

butt if u jus dress or act like one then really ur jus gayy- nd smetimes it's not ur fault (i'm assuming it's not UR fault?? did this happen naturallyy??)


barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

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meghaniswhattheycallme

meghaniswhattheycallme says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

I'm 14 and i have nothing wrong with gay or lesbian people what so ever they are fun to be around. I'm straight but i hangout with people that arn't. It's not my job to judge nor is it for christans. I myself am atheist and don't believe all the bull that christans say. Whats really bull is that the christans say that god forgiving jesus is forgiving blah blah blah and then they turn around and say the gays are going to hell? I don't believe it one bit. It's none of anyone's bussiness whether you are gay or not. If you choose to involve them and ask their opinon then be prepared for the worst. Also you shouldn't care what people say about your choice of lifestyle you have one time to live it, be what you want to be just enjoy life and don't worry about stupid poeple.) i hope i shed a little light into whats going on.

gee_jade

gee_jade says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

you know what guys, you got it all wrong........to start with, dnt get mad if someone says "my computer is acting gay" because that person probably didn't want to hurt your feelings, it's just how your friend chooses to vent out, it's nothing big really, you're just overreacting about it, it's just his expression geez.........



second, you know those people who say it's against God? what they mean by that is when gays start having sexual affairs with the same sex, the same goes for lesbians.......there's a fine line between just being yourself by letting the world know you're gay, and going against God by doing the sinful things..........somewhere in the old testament you can find the story of Sodom and Gomorrah, the two cities that were destroyed because it was very sinful, full of gays who engaged in sexual activities with the same sex



get it? it's ok to be gay, but it's not ok to have sex with the same sex because God never intended that.............it's wrong and well........dnt yell at me but that's what's really called gay........i myself have two gay best friends and i love them both, they're just like girls! ^_^ sounds fun to hang out with huh? but what if those gays begin to do the wrong things? wouldn't be so much fun then..........i hope you see my point here



plus, if the topic just leads to war of the sexes instead of a mind clearing subject of opinions and facts, i suggest you close this question immediately

cute_wonderful_blondie

cute_wonderful_blondie says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

I find it a bit weird.... I'm still young to judge that kinda thing..... I actually wanna puke when I see gay guys but I actually don't mind girls... Dunno why.... I still find it weird cause I'm young so here's exactly what I think:

-I think gay guys are gross but I don't mind girls

-I think they may shouldn't get married in church just because of the tradition(i it's allowed it's ok)

-I think I know why I hate gay guys.... Maybe because girls are more opened to play with fire and you'll find more girls that can like guys and girls like u.... So it's their style I guess.... haha And I think guys like watching gay girls(blah I know guys from my class do).......



I find myself extremely weird for answering this... haha I think it's my age inappropriate but I wanted to say my thoughts....





And one more thing: in my country the gay population is not so normal(I know it is in USA and big developed countries) so here it's not very normal and people mostly hide it.....








juicystar07

juicystar07 says:

Posted on 15 Jun 2010

i can't imagine how terrible it must be to have someone call you names or use "gay" to call something "dorky". it makes me mad thinking about how many people get beaten up or abused just because they are being themselves and "showing their true colours" as my grandma would say. i'm proud of you for not backing down and saying that you aren't gay when you are. it takes real courage to show who you really are to the world and i find that gay people look more confident. i don't know why i think this, but they look more confident than non-gay people.



ellen degeneres is gay and she seems to be very happy. i suppose that it doesn't really matter what gender you perfer. all that matters is that you are happy. good luck and happy gay pride 2010!!! (since i don't know when is gay pride week or day, i just say 2010 instead!!! lol)

billieprox

billieprox says:

Posted on 13 Jul 2010

i think that things like being gay should be left up to the person in question,not anyone else.

i hate when people try to tell others that decisions that only effect their life is wrong. its not hurting you,why do you care what they do?



thats really my philophy on everything. we should all just let one another lead our own lives and be friends :)

wendysdaughter

wendysdaughter says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

Well I am very mature for my age. I start "that" at 12 and I understand the country thing I just like to see people in their light and dark. not to mention I am mostly gay and almost 15. thank you

wendysdaughter

wendysdaughter says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

One thing I would like to say is I will not take this question down. If they do like the question they do not need to answer. I do not wish I to sound rude and on none of these replies have I ever said you are wrong, way would I? I was asking your opinion but if you say some thing totaly out there is when I say something from my point of veiw

bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

I agree

bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

I dont think lesbians and gays are BORN that way. Its a choice. Just like everything in life. You make the decision.

wendysdaughter

wendysdaughter says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

If you are saying I am complaining, I am not. I just am stating the way I feel. Most of this came from me being beat up at school for being "emo" or "scene" and it makes me upset when people can not understand that your whole life there are going to be people diferent than you. I am not rant just explaining

bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

Yes i know. But thats just the price that comes with the unnatural and new to society. How its been through time and how its always been. I havent a problem against gays. Your life, your entitled to live it as you choose. Do i think its right no, will i judge you for it? No. I mean what right have i? A imperfect person cant judge someone only a perfect person can. And only God is perfect and im not him:) But my point is gays are just as much to blame in the judging arena as straights. Straights judge gays cause their odd, gays judge straights because they of their opinion. Its all the same.

bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

*I honestly think gays make a bigger deal of them being gay than straights do! In reality, we care no more of what your sexuality is then we do care how many times you have sex. It is what it is you know?

bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2010

God is forgiving to those who ask for forgiveness. And the "Christians" that turn around and condemn you to hell ARENT God so why compare them to him? They are the ones not being forgiving. Not God.

rokkii

rokkii says:

Posted on 08 Jun 2010

No, I don't think that they are born that way, but I do not think it's a choice. I mean, I like guys but there are some guys I am not attracted to. I guess for some girls there's just none, but from all the lesbians I've known, one thing I've found in common among most of them is that they have either been abused by dads or boyfriends past, which honestly makes a lot of sense to me.

meghaniswhattheycallme

meghaniswhattheycallme says:

Posted on 08 Jun 2010

I was simply stating that the Christans are usually the ones judging people telling them that god is going to send them to hell. I was not trying to affend you about your god. If i did i am sorry

wendysdaughter

wendysdaughter says:

Posted on 08 Jun 2010

I totally agree about gay being born. Me and my sister are bisexual. We both have been with mean and that does not mean we woke up and said I want to be with a girl. I got a kiss from an amazing girl when I was 12 years old. I have had feelings for girls my whole life but never acted on it. And I know this part is going to bring up some stuff but oh well, my nepthew is proubably gay. And its not because he is raised by a gay women.

gee_jade

gee_jade says:

Posted on 08 Jun 2010

cool you were able to see my point! XD thanks guys, oh and if i sounded like i was trying to turn everyone to believe in my opinion, sorry bout that, the last part i was aactually trying to look out for you coz some people can get too in to stuff if you know what i mean 0_o

mistress1209

mistress1209 says:

Posted on 08 Jun 2010

i agree.. i just wish people can see things from a human standpoint.

ninja_nikki

ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 10 Jun 2010

*but you can't talk about your religion in school. Sorry typo.

wendysdaughter

wendysdaughter says:

Posted on 10 Jun 2010

We have gay pride pararades because we are saying we are gay and we don't care what you say! The whole reason I go to them is because I was beat up at school for standing up for my girl friend. Thing is studies show that it is half born and half surroundings. Trust me, people are gay. I like girls! I only like a few guys. It is very rare I "fall" for a guy. GIrls, I treat like gold. You need to read the facts before you think something as serious as this is "funny"

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