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wee_bird asked:

22 Mar 2013

cani still get a bf

I'm 12 and fat and nearly any friends it sucks I hate it and I'm wondering if people think it would be possible to have a boyfriend who's not.like a nerd.or anything

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cute_wonderful_blondie

cute_wonderful_blondie says:

Posted on 22 Mar 2013

I don't understand your reasons for wanting a boyfriend in the first place. Do you think a boyfriend is a mandatory thing once you enter your teens? I don't mean to be rude or anything, and of course you can have a boyfriend, I just don't think it should be because you want the idea of having a boyfriend, but when you actually like a guy. A boyfriend does not magically make all your problems disappear, and the concept of having a boyfriend does not make you feel more attractive. So maybe you should work on your own inside and accepting yourself so as you can be confident and sure about what you want in a guy, not just wanting him "not to be a nerd". :)

krista090

krista090 says:

Posted on 23 Mar 2013

First of all nerds are not bad boyfriend material, and can be quite cute, plus he can do your homework - rant over. :)

Secondly, at your age or at any age, getting a boyfriend will only hide the problems for a while from yourself since you'll be focusing on him. So because of this, my suggestion is that you learn to accept yourself as you are, and to work on things about yourself that you don't like. :)

bumble_bee_123

bumble_bee_123 says:

Posted on 23 Mar 2013

Your only 12. You dont need nor want a serious boyfriend at 12 trust me, dont go out with a guy unless you really do like him. Theres no point on having a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend. Your just discovering who you are, its a confusing time I know. Your thinking about boys more etc and your starting to get crushes on guys. Before you get a boyfriend, you need to figure out who YOU are first and learn how to be comfortable on your own and in your own skin. I know people your age start going out with people but its not real. I guarantee you any person you know the same age as you who has a so called "boyfriend" wont be going out with the same guy in 2 months time.

Also, you can have a boy whos a friend without him being a "boyfriend" either. Dont come across as needy or desperate for a boyfriend.

Also, nerds are usually 1000 times nicer and better friends than "jocks" or the "popular" guys at school. You shouldnt just not like someone because there a little bit geeky or not good looking. Give them a chance, maybe you might not be boyfriend and girlfirend but still you could be good friends. Nerds can be cute sometimes too and great boyfriend material. Dont just judge people like that and look down on them. Anyway dont feel like your under any pressure to have a boyfriend just because thats what everyone else is doing. You'll have plenty of time for that in the future when your a little bit more mature and confident.

emmilymarie

emmilymarie says:

Posted on 27 Mar 2013

At 12 years old, you should be focused on being young. You have time to get a boyfriend when you are older. Enjoy being a kid, hang out with friends. Some boys your age aren't mature enough to be in a relationship. They are still little kids. Guys mature slower then girls. I think 12 is too young for relationships.
You can't solve anything by getting a boyfriend. And you shouldn't say you're fat...everyone is beautiful in their own way, and when you are older, the right guy will want to be with you no matter what you look like, or think you look like.
Like I said, you are only 12. You shouldn't be worried about a boyfriend. They aren't as great as everyone makes them seem. Have fun and don't be in a hurry to grow up. You are only a kid once. Also, some nerds can make great boyfriends.

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