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violent_kiss asked:

19 Jan 2011

Okay, so i'm too can i overcome it?

Whenever i like, go out to a gathering and stuff, i just get kind of depressed and bored. i just prefer going out with one or two people, but even that doesn't work out sometimes. I like going out, but usually alone. And it sucks to live in the city, im more of a countryside person, though iv only been a few times? i just love nature. and hate the city. I usually call a friend over for a sleepover but then regret it, cos i dont enjoy. I dont even know what i want anymore. No, i'm not depressed. I love life, but there are very very very few people i can truly enjoy around, but unfortunetly i dont get to meet them. I guess im just one of those people who likes being alone.

But i just wanna know how 1)to enjoy being around people (and its not just a puberty thing. i've been like this since i was a kid. maybe cos im an only child? cos i spent the last 6 months abroad with my cuusins and i got used to being around them, and hell i enjoyed that.) and 2)how to make new friends? iv tried making friends who live around me, or people with whom i have mutual friends, on facebook, but it never works. Half of them just ignore me, which leaves me feeling pretty crap.
if neither of these works out,
then just tell me how to enjoy my own company better, since that suits me best :)



pyt says:

Posted on 19 Jan 2011

I kind of get where your coming from, I'm a sociable person BUT I seriously love just being by myself . When I'm with a large amount of people I often feel out of place/bored/depressed because I feel like I don't belong ( this probably stems from my self consciousness) , but regardless of this fact I'm still out there. I do my best to talk to everybody, get to know everybody and almost force myself into conversations. Yes that sounds pushy but trust me it isn't, like opposed to sitting in the corner I get involved with what people are saying and I try to understand what there talking about. No I might not always enjoy being around everyone but I force myself to become integrated with everyone and overtime It becomes a natural reaction. Until I don't really have to force myself anymore.

If that doesn't work for you then embrace being alone ! Do things by yourself, like taking pictures, going to the mall, hanging out, etc. Get a hobby that involves just you and finding out about yourself. Write in a journal, think about all the things that you love and all the things you know about yourself that know one else does. Find joy in the fact that your, your own best friend! Also, if you like nature how about joining a club, group or volunteering at a place that's all about nature :)

If you want to talk about anything else then I'm here for you (: !


juneybabyyy says:

Posted on 27 Aug 2011

hey i thought i was the only one haha.
yeah, im like that too. rather than being in a large group, i was always better with just one person or two people.
because if i were to be in a group, i would always be or feel left out.
i think part of the reason why im like this is because i'm so afraid of social rejection, so i just avoid it.


violent_kiss says:

Posted on 20 Jan 2011

Yesss thankyou! thats my problem too, feel too out of place. I do have selfesteem issues. I just never fit in, cos i don't do all the 'oh-so-cool' things like drinking, making out with 842987 boys, wearing OTT makeup etc etc.
and half the time going out and 'having a good time' is just forced for me.
im going out again this sunday and its like feghfewugbf im so nervous i wanna cancel, i dont even know why :|
but thanks, this did really help! :)

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