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v_mars asked:

03 Oct 2010

I think something is wrong with me :(

Every time there is a guy that I become interested in after we hang out I start to talk myself out of it after a little bit or I start to have doubts and pick away at the person until I'm left feeling disappointed that I even liked them. Why do I do this and how can I stop?? Anyone know whats going on?



youmeatsix says:

Posted on 03 Oct 2010

I was exactly the same, I would be so happy for the first two weeks of a relationship and then I would find stupid reasons to end it. It was mainly because i'd never known of a successful relationship in my life, my mum broke up with my dad and countless boyfriends after and i'd never seen real evidence of love. So i'd freak out and hurt them before they could hurt me. And then I met my boyfriend and he's honestly the love of my life, i've never been happier :)


xkatzyxfairyxdollx says:

Posted on 03 Oct 2010

Yeah...... It happens...You really can't say theres something wrong with you.. Because honestly alot of ppl go through that. It's not until you Find that "one", then you won't be having doubts about them.

I'm actually IN that phase right now ironically. Lol It sucks....because like I would like it to work.But I just find myself getting angry and just Blurting out -I HATE him just because I feel like nothigns great....It's really not a good way to go. I just don't believe in strong love relationships...untill I FEEL it-then Thats when my eyes will open up. But as for now. All you can do is just Experience it :/ Good luck


barbipixi says:

Posted on 04 Oct 2010

it could just mean you think you want a boyfriend badly but really you don't know anyone who's really what you want. your seeing someone and quickly making a judgement call off the idea of being boyfriend/girlfriend but after you have time to realize you don't like that person as much

if that's the case it's fine and when you find a guy you really like you won't be so nit picky i didn't really start dating till i was 17 so it's ok even if you don't have a love interest early


omgitslily says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2010

Instead of thinking about the bad things, think about the good and why u liked that person in the first place. Do u like them becuz they're funny? Or maybe becuz they're serious? If u find that there aren't many good reasons why u like them, maybe then u should change ur priorities and start paying attention 2 the real guys u deserve.


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2010

oh, i've been there. that's why i personally would rather start out any potential relationship with just being friends. Friendship has far less expectations involved and tends to bring out both of your real selves. This also gets you on better ground to decide whether things should progress or not, without all the drama.


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2010

there's nothing wrong with you. XD it looks like you haven't really found him yet. and oh, mr. right doesn't come in a perfect package either. Intuition aside, it also takes some time to know if he's for keeps.

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