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transparentelegance asked:

17 Sep 2010

How to stop being envious/jealous?

Ok it seems that all the time i get envious of other girls. No matter how hard i try to stop i still get jealous and i know i shouldn't but i get this way because i'm very insecure about my looks and other things.And it really upsets me that i'm like this because i'm never happy .How can i get over this ?Advice would be much appreciated :)



vanillabb says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2010

Just remember that everybody has a unique beauty to them & if you looked like the other girl .. it would be boring.


scarlet7 says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2010

Girl,Your so gorgeous anyone would die to have ur looks.Learn to appreciate yourself.And your lips are soo lovely too :)

And dontt be insecure,youll just waste your teen years...

After you belive in urself ull realize that you were jealous over nothing....


shesallsmiles says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2010

Well, you can't stop feeling envious about other girls until you are secure with yourself. you just always have to look at the positive things that you like about yourself, because if you keep focusing on the negative, then you're just not going to be a happy person. i struggle with self confidence issues like crazy, i'm really insecure sometimes, and i sometimes get jealous of other girls. but you cant let that bring you down. you're always going to be who you are, and you can't change that, so you might as well be happy just the way you are. anways, you're stunning, so you shouldnt have to be insecure.


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2010

We all get insecure at one time or another. It would help much if you appreciate characteristics unique in you and not too many people have it. You have a pretty face, for one thing. I bet you're smart too. Take me for example, I'm short and my teeth aren't perfect, I've got flabby arms, lol, some days my hair is just hideous...but hey, I can sing well, I have a husband who loves me so much, I have nice eyebrows, people say I'm a great listener and a good friend....the list goes on....these are thoughts that'll make you feel better bout yourself.


sena95 says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2010

Bite your tongue. When you feel jealousy taking over, don't react in a destructive way. Don't accuse, don't give the silent treatment, don't roll your eyes, and don't show any signs of displeasure. Try to do the opposite of what a jealous person would do. If a friend is going to spend time with someone else, for example, recommend a good movie or restaurant. If your partner is talking to someone else, leave them be. Do what a completely trusting person would do in your shoes, even if it makes you feel crazy. Jealous behavior can bring any kind of relationship to its knees, so nip it in the bud. Make time to discuss, using nonviolent communication, what made you feel jealous later, when the strong feelings of jealousy have passed, and you're not as likely to overreact.


ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2010

Your beautiful!!! You have nothing to be jeleous about, but like the other girls say it's pretty normal for everybody.

1. Look in the mirror and pick out your best features. (Inner and Outter)

2. Even though it's hard you should also pick out the things you don't like about yourself. If it's something you can change then strive to change it (in a healthy way). If it's not something you can change, learn to embrace it, because your flaws are what set you apart from everybody else.

3. Again, even though it can be hard confidence is key. Pull your shoulders back, hold your head up high, and walk knowing that you are beautiful, but don't get to snobby about it. That's what will set you apart from other girls and guys think it's very attractive. :P

4. Though, it's hard to imagine every single girl has flaws and they do dwell on it. I don't care if your Frigen Megan Fox, every girl is insecure. (Speaking of Megan Fox I can give you an example..She's insecure about her thumbs, because of some disease that makes them look like toes). :o

5. Kinda intertwines with number 2, stop focusing on the things you can't change about yourself.

6. What can effect somebodies looks is their additude, so be nice to everybody!!!

7. Take little steps that can give you a confidence boost when you need it. Example. Paint nails, spray your fav perfume on..etc. Trust me thoughs little things help.

I hope this helps. :)


fathima says:

Posted on 18 Sep 2010

Here r some tips to overcome jealous.

1)Understand that jealousy is based on a combination of insecurity and egotism. You are reluctant to trust completely, and even what trust you have allowed is, at any given moment, subject to change. In short, you have a higher regard for your suspicions than you do the person you proclaim to love.


Do a thorough evaluation of the character of the person you are jealous of. Consider the history and personal knowledge you have of them. Ask yourself, do they deserve your suspicions? Have they committed acts that truly deserve your lack of trust? Does their character warrant the wrath of your jealousy?


Do a thorough evaluation of your own character. Consider the different moments you have allowed feelings of jealousy to foment. Ask yourself, was your reaction always justified in each instance? Did the one you love truly threaten the trust you share together? Did you react maturely or over-react according to your own insecurity and lack of trust?


After this introspection, if the one you love proves to be guilty and justly accused and convicted, perhaps you should move on to someone upon whom you can truly rely. But if you discover it is you who are jumping the gun a bit and are unfairly accusing, and you realize it is because you have not allowed a deep trust of your loved one to develop because you are egotistically insecure, then it is time to move on from a juvenile emotional status to a mature emotional status.


Realize that anyone who places another human as the one source of their well being and self-worth is acting on a juvenile view of life and sets up a relationship based on worship rather than the equal sharing of human love.


If you have now identified the truth of the situation and find you are at fault, then it is time to adopt a new and mature view of life and to act on it.


Realize that you are in this world as an individual who has a purpose apart from your partner. You must be aware that whether a relationship survives or fails, you alone are responsible for how you respond to life.


jod_mets says:

Posted on 25 Sep 2010

I've never really been the type to get jealous. But i'm not saying I have never been jealous, there's always going to be those few people or that ONE person that you'll be jealous of. Really, you're just going to notice the things on people that you either focus on, or point out. Just stay calm and just smile and breath when you're about to say something to yourself that's going to make you jealous. Everyone's different, and that person may deserve to be as pretty as they are or have what they have. You have no idea what people go through.

But the worst is when a person doesn't deserve any of it but you have to deal with that fact that there are more pretty girls than just you. Everyone likes different things in people, so what one person likes in you they probably have a fault for the other girl. And vice versa.


deltadsipho says:

Posted on 03 Feb 2011

Wow first off i want to tell you that you are beautiful, just being honest not trying to kiss ass here. But I'm like Jod_mets below me I'm not the type of girl to get jealous either. But yeah I think the thing that helps me out a lot with jealousy is just think positive i tell myself that everyone is beautiful in their own way. Also if you look at yourself and you think to yourself what are your best features and you try and make yourself look good by pin pointing out your best features to you example like eyes. Brighten them up or something do things that will make you feel better about yourself i think insecurity plays a part in it. I don't know everyone is different.


deltadsipho says:

Posted on 03 Feb 2011

sorry s/p and tried to think but I don't know if it even makes sense : / I tried lol


all_dolled_up says:

Posted on 01 Jul 2011

Once you except yourself the way you are, you'll stop.

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