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My names Anna, birthdays in October, favorite numbers 25, I got two older brothers who i adore, i got a boyfriend whos amazing his names mikey, anndddddd yeah lots more if you wanna know more message me up at Takethistoheart93@hotmail.com

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takethistoheart93 asked:

14 Sep 2009

He broke up with me after they had sex.

(friend of user btw)



on saturday my boyfriend broke up with me.

We agreed as a couple not to have sex before marriage. So he went and cheated on me the day before we broke up. Then he broke up. We decided to be friends still because i love him and yeah complicated. Anyways... he's dating the girl he had sex with the night before he broke up with me. I feel worthless. She is a prosurfer, owns 2 motorcycles and a mustang, she is tanned,toned, and skinny, older and prettier looking then me, she offers him sex which i never did. he loves her.I asked him what he thought of her after he asked me and i lied and said she sounded great. and he said she was amazing fun loving and he thinks shes adorable and such. he wants me to get a boyfriend..... i asked him when he asked her out he said thursday.... we broke up saturday morning....... -_- cry... just wanted to say it its not really a question other then i need help getting over him... we were together for 2 and a half years... im not really in the crying totally sad depressed mood im over that. now im like angry and jealous of her.



i don't understand men.

what's something i can to do get over him. over her. over them.


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ahroarah

ahroarah says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2009

if he left you that easily... then he isn't worth it. you will find a handsome, caring, man of your own dreams. don't waste your tears on him. you are still young. there is time to fall in love and be settled down.

ginger_e

ginger_e says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2009

arr thats sad and propa harsh. hope you feel better and get over him soon

myradiosayslala

myradiosayslala says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2009

i agree with ahroarah...

hope it will be okay sweety

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2009

I'm sorry to hear that girl. He is not worth your tears anymore. He doesn't know what he wants that is why he drifted so easily. Some guys are easily drawn to something new and different...well at least young guys are. Older guys, that have kinda seen it...been there knows when they have a good girlfriend. He is going to get bored/tired of the new girl eventually....and you will have moved on to something better! Try to find things that you like doing to keep your mind occupied. Like spend an afternoon at Barnes and Noble and just relax and read though books or magazines... learn about wine or read books about men! hahaha... I would use this time to enjoy time to myself,,, browse the mall alone. find yourself again.

jessd

jessd says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2009

wow.. im sorry to hear this.. you just got to move on.. keep yourself busy so you dont think about it..

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 14 Sep 2009

first sorry but you're going to have to STOP PUNISHING YOURSELF!



being around him is just reminding you if all the good things you had instead of focusing on HIM BEING A CHEATER! and sorry once a cheater always a cheater. if he did it to you he'd do it to her.



guys want sex (atleast most of them) it's a end game factor. if you give your bf sex and he's a good guy you'll keep him forever, but if he thinks he's hot shit he's going ot get it from anyone he can



that's the main rule



you want to look for a guy who has a bit of low self esteem, and maybe not that much experiance with girls. a guy who want to take care of himself but is a bit dorky or nurdy. they need to know you're the best thing that will EVER happen to them and they can't do better cause you love them like they love you.



break that bond and move on you'll NEVER find a great guy if you keep hanging on to that leash of the one who got away but really he just clinged onto another girl like a monkey before he let go of the sure thing he had

auri

auri says:

Posted on 15 Sep 2009

Well to be truthful, if he cant wait until your ready...then he wasnt worth it from the start. Yeah love hurts, but it makes you a stronger person and thats how life goes =)



Now i could understand how you feel, if my boyfriend did that to me, my heart would stop lol but anyways, you'll find a guy who's perfect for you.



Just be happy you didnt have sex with him and figured out he had sex with another girl as well...then you've lost it to someone who doesent even now how to show some respect.



Go have fun. Dont look for a guy just wait till you heal and until then just be happy to be single and free from everything =)



Good Luck and have fun!

x

crazy_izzi

crazy_izzi says:

Posted on 15 Sep 2009



i hope u get over him

i am sooo sorry

but i bet he is not worth the trouble

hope u will feel better

oxoxox

u still have us

oxoxox

izzi

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