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summergirl23

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summergirl23 asked:

30 Dec 2010

I'm taken but my ex wants to be friends..?

i went out with my ex over summer and i broke up with him because a bunch of crap happened and things got complicated and i needed out of the relationship but i still really like him just not more than a friend and i love my current bf but i still want to be friends with my ex. however i kno my ex still likes me even though he has a gf now too.. should i try and be friends with him and see where it goes and if he tries to go to far end the relationship? or just forget about him completely even though i think about him a lot

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jod_mets

jod_mets says:

Posted on 30 Dec 2010

It's probably very hard for you right now. Torn between two people that you love! But really think about those complications that you had awhile ago, were they because of him? If so why would you want that again, once a loser always a loser. Seeing as though you broke up with him and found someone else. I think you should stay with your current bf - think about him too. Your boyfriend has a girlfriend too do you really think he would break up with her once your done with yours? I don't know! I don't really know what's going on from one paragraph. You seem happy with this current guy and your ex seems to be just causing heart ache for you. Being friends with Ex's usually don't work out. You either date them or you don't!!!

Hope you figure out what to do xo

becca_16

becca_16 says:

Posted on 31 Dec 2010

Jod_mets is right in one aspect..there aren't enough details. Firstly it depends on why you broke up with him. was he cheating on you? did he treat you bad? etc. If he still likes you you should probably talk to him about. Let him know you are happy in your relationship and that friendship is all you want....Make sure he listens.
I reckon give it a go, but keep your current bf in your mind. If hes not....than why are you with him?
Good luck girl x

chloelouise

chloelouise says:

Posted on 02 Jan 2011

Whats the harm in being friends? I say go for it.
You say ''but i still really like him just not more than a friend'' and ''or just forget about him completely even though i think about him a lot'' you need to decide what do to about your feelings toward him, if you still like him and he still likes you then you should try being together again. But if you just want to be friends with him, make it clear thats your choice and remember to act as friends, you both have a past togehter so if you want certain things that happened in the relationship to remain unknown by your friends, people you know etc then I think regaining trust by being friends would be a good idea.

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