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stenmore asked:

05 Jun 2010

Help me please :(((((

My boyfriend has fooled around with his friends that r girls ( in the past ) but now, when it comes to getting close with me, he always has an excuse eg- too tired, or he lost his sex drive coz he wanked that morning. This six coz he was always in the mood when he was with other girls. It's really sad even know he loves me and stuff, he never wants that sorta thing. What should I do? (we've beengoinf out for 3 months)



rokkii says:

Posted on 08 Jun 2010


Either he respects you and is trying to change his lifestyle, he's fooling around with someone(s) else, or he just doesn't want that with you, maybe because you're pushing it on him. Maybe you seem easy and he prefers a game.

But you've only been together 3 months. Not very long! Why introduce something that HUGE (and it really is, it WILL break MOST relationships) while your relationship is still young and fragile.


midsummer_dreams says:

Posted on 06 Jun 2010

ZOMGZ honestly girl, how old are you? You're still a kid, you don't need to be worrying about how horny your boyfriend is around you.

Have you ever thought that maybe he doesn't wanna fool around with you cause he might actually respect you?

Or maybe he's just immature. Because like the comments below, just cause he 'wanked' in the morning is no excuse for not getting horny near the afternoon |:

I'd say just confront him about it. Because dude, that guy is making up the most pathetic excuses:)


barbipixi says:

Posted on 06 Jun 2010

i agree with gee_jade and bear

basically i'm saying you're still a kid sorry but you are. and i soooo don't believe in kids and sex. and yes if guys jack in the morning they would soooo still be ready for the real deal. i dont' know any guy who wouldn't hop on the first thing they saw... unless they're getting it somewhere else.

and yea 3months is nothing compared to a lifetime.


gee_jade says:

Posted on 05 Jun 2010

doesn't sound like love to me.........sorry hun but you can do better, you shouldn't tolerate him fooling around with other girls, it's just wrong, and three months how old are you? are you really willing to give up your whole life for three months? ok so maybe i'm exagerrating a bit there but still, you lived your life well, when you still hadn't met him, why start messing it up now right?

i say break it off with him or at least suggest that you cool off until he learns how to be a good boyfriend.., yeah i like this better, then if he realizes he's wrong youu can start fresh, if not, well, lucky you! ^_^ time saved in fighting mr right

good luck! ^_^


bear14 says:

Posted on 05 Jun 2010

well...honestly, he's lying about his sex drive....guys only need 10 minutes to regain their energy and drive....if he did stuff in the morning...and it's the afternoon, he should be ready to go. but if he's saying that stuff, then he's not worth could ask him why...maybe he doesn't want to do anything with you yet because he's not ready (it could happen)....bring it up that he did stuff with other girls and that you're wondering why he won't with you.


mizunohi says:

Posted on 05 Jun 2010

Maybe he wants to get his act together and get away from shallow relationships or one-night stands in his past. I'd talk to him and try to discuss your feelings without pressuring him! He may be waiting to make his time with you more special, and he thinks that you're worth the effort of a lasting relationship, so he doesn't want to rush and possibly ruin things. If he's just plain not interested why would you be going out in the first place? Good luck!!!


stenmore says:

Posted on 06 Jun 2010

Oh no he's never fooled around while we were dating, he's just been horny with other girls except me


stenmore says:

Posted on 06 Jun 2010

Oh no he's never fooled around while we were dating, he's just been horny with other girls except me

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