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stenmore asked:

03 Feb 2010

bizaare love triangle - just in time for valentines day :\

in my group, there are 6 people. one of my guy friends has been friends with my girl friend for about 5 years. my girl friend has always had a crush on him and shes told him before, but he has always told her that he doesnt like her in that way. me and my guy friend have become really close and ive started loving him too. then one day i told my girl friend that i liked him and she told me the same. (and that shes never stopped liking him) so i dont know what to do. i think this guy likes me a lil bit too, but my girl friend once told me she hates seeing him with other girls coz it makes her sad and wont hang out with all of us anymore if i end up going out with this guy. i dont know what to do - my girl friend has had a pretty tough homelife and i dont want her to stop hanging with us or be sad. so what should i do...?

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fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 03 Feb 2010

so basically you both like the same boy. he might mike you and he doesnt like her. sounds like you would be the bad friend if you started talking to him or going out besides being friends. i think your friend should come first in this situation. or try talking to her if you dont think she'll be hurt knowing he likes you but didint like her. but def find out for sure if he likes you first before saying anything.

me_is_reid_mckeel

me_is_reid_mckeel says:

Posted on 03 Feb 2010

You both like the same guy so you have to be sensitive with her. Tell them both how you feel. If he doesn't like her she needs to let go. I know it makes her sad but after plenty of love and nurturing(you come in at that point helping her.) she will get over him. You have to be sensitive though b/c she is pretty broken. Stand by her. While you are helping her dont talk much with the guy. Find her someone else or help those two. Just be a good friend.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 04 Feb 2010

it's sooo hard how would you feel if you liked a guy then you knew you could never be with him but it felt like it was rubbed in your face by you having to see him all the time loving on someone else that's close to you too?



if you decide to go out with him you probly need to take it slow and keep it on the down low. try it out and see how it goes and if it goes well have him and one of his guy friends ask you and your friend out on a double date. but he needs to make it clear that the other guy belongs to her and he's going with you.



she'll let go easier if she has someone else to draw her attention

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