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stenmore

stenmore asked:

almost 7 years

Hello :)

Last time i was on here i was in the midst of probably the worst sadness i have ever expirienced. i remember feeling so alone, i wasnt close with my friends anymore, and extremely betrayed. I remember wanting to know when the pain would finally go away, and when i would lose the feelings that felt so strong at the time. Well, heres a followup: The first 2 weeks were the hardest of my life. Any thought of him that entered my mind i got rid of because it was too painful, after that, it seemed like every week, about 5% of my feeling would wear off for him and i didnt even realize. i became closer to my friends and gained a social life i had basically lost when i was with him. After about 4 months after we had broken up, there were no feelings left. Its now been about 8 months since we brokeup and i am feeling fine. i havent had a new boyfriend since, but it hasnt been as bad as i though it would be. i now realize that he wasnt right for me, and i am stronger than i ever was. xo

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

over 7 years

i have never felt more depressed, id do anything for help please. (3)

half of me was waiting for his call for him to apologize and say he wanted me back, but the other half thought that he would be out all night getting the girls and i should just understand and get over him. the night after, (2 days ago) i went to a friends party and then to a club. everyone at the club was old because it was a saturday night and there was no cute guys. i missed him more than ever and spoke to me friend who told me that i should give him a call in the morning to talk. i woke up in the morning and had to goto work. i had blocked him on facebook the night we brokeup because i told him that if we ever broke up, that id have to cut him out of my life to make myself heal. anyway, i decided to unblock him that afternoon (yesterday) and noticed that he was already "in a relationship" with the girl who i had suspisions about. he left me for her. ive never felt more hurt, i havent eaten either. i need help, guidance from someone who has been through it and is now happy, anyone?

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

over 7 years

i have never felt more depressed, id do anything for help please. (2)

is what he said to me. i asked him if he still loved me, he said he does and always will, and that he doesnt want to breakup because he will probably regret it in a week or so. we agreed to meet up the next day after school to discuss whether to stay together, (also the fact that i owed him money and clothes that were at mine). all of this was a shock to me because we were so happy, we never fought and always had fun together. i texted him the next day half way through school saying "if your mind is made up, then maybe we shouldnt meet up and talk, i dont want to bother talking if your mind is made up, and i will just be emotional." he replied with a simple "thats a good idea, but can i still come and meet up with you to get my money and clothes back?" i said yes. we later met up at the mall and i gave him his stuff, with a friendly smile and said goodbye. as i was walking off i felt the tears running down my face. i continued crying all that night - (3)

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

over 7 years

i have never felt more depressed, id do anything for help please. (1)

one week ago today, my boyfriend added this girl on facebook because she was posting funny comments on a website he saw. i knew who the girl was, but we werent friends. as the days went by, my boyfriend started calling me less, not leaving me as many messages, and taking a longer time to reply on facebook chat. he liked one of these girls photos on facebook because she liked one of his. i knew in the back of my mind that something wasnt right. she was 10x prettier than me, 2 years younger, thinner, funnier, loved south park and rap music, and so did my boyfriend. they had a lot in common, but i didnt want to think of the worst. 4 days ago at night we were on the phone and he was very quiet. i could tell something was on his mind. i asked him about it and he refused to tell. i got it out of him though. "i want to be young while i still can, i realized im really young and i just turned 18 and id like to get out there and be with a lot of girls." is what he said to me on the - (2)

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

over 7 years

emergency

me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months. we both in our final year of highschool. we both love eachother very much, and are very happy together. we both plan our futures together, my boyfriend is determined to goto uni with me and such. he just wants us to be together. however, he hasnt really wanted sex lately. lastnight, he had a party, and we were getting intimate at the end of the night. we began to have sex, but he stopped halfway through. he said it was because he had smoked and drunk alot, but i dont know. he called me today and said we needed to talk. he told me that he doesnt know whats wrong, and that for some reason he just gets that way. he also told me that he is scared he might lose attraction to me. i asked him is he was interested in anyone else, or if he wasnt attracted to me anymore and he said its not me, that its that a small thing that will go away. but its only been 4 months. i love him so much and im terrified. what should i do? help please

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

about 9 years

dead :(

i recently got left my group to find new friends because my friend was crazy and treated me like shit. so i left and made a new group of friends, then i goto a party 2 weeks later and she is there with two ladettes who are having a go at me, saying that i am rank compared to her and that im a bitch and everything for leaving the friendship, i handled it responsibly and told them what happened even know they didnt listen to me, and they said that if they see me on the street or anywhere in future, they'll bash me. I cant tell on them, because they know so many people that could get me killed. What else could go wrong?? If anyone has any ideas for me, or tips or stories that relate, id greatly appreciate hearing them for support, etc.

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

about 9 years

Wishlist;

1) To lose 10 kilos in 2 weeks (20lbs) 2) To be with that lush boy ive been frothin' over (get the hot guy) 3) Get an iphone 4) Successfully be able to sneak out of the house after everyone's asleep 5) Get my license

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

about 9 years

BoysBoysBoys

i have a crush on this popular boy, and he is actually unbelievably good looking and sweet too, but i am not popular or very pretty at all, and he doesnt even know i exist, he goes to a co-ed school and i goto an all girls, i reallllllly like him, what should i do?

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

about 9 years

i hate this

i just left my group coz they didnt care about me and they kept saying shit about me. then i joined a new group and they are hardly even talking to me. Also people that i was friends with sooooo long ago are getting angry at me even know i did absolutly nothing to make them upset. I cant do this anymore, i hate highschool so much i cant stand it. I just wish i can move across the state or to another school where people could leave me alone and i can be happy. im in 10th grade so i have 2 more years left, i dont know what to do and i hate this so much! please help me feel okay anyone

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

over 9 years

This is my life (sadly) part 3

- and he said that the one thing in life that he wants is a family, but theres one thing that he cannot say to anyone thats standing in his way from having a family, he told me that i could get better and that i dont deserve to be put through this. I had no idea what he was talking about, because we both loved each other, but it was just when we tried to have sex things werent very good. But then he told me that if he told me the reason why he heates himsellf, we would have to breakup. I had a decision of breaking up, or letting my boyfriend feel depressed about this unknown problem for our whole relationship. I told him that he had to tell me, in order for him to be happ i want him to tell me. He told me that he was gay and that he hated the fact that he was that way. He told me that he loves me, but he is gay and he wants whats best for me and my 'urges'. So we brokeup, we are both devastated, its been five days since we brokeup, and its killing me. :'(

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

over 9 years

This is my life (sadly) part 2

-like either of us. We were both devastated when he told us, but then a few weeks later, he told people that he liked me, at this stage i was trying to get over him, but when i heard the news i wasnt so sure if i should. Then one night i told him on MSN that i like him. He replied saying that he likes me too but it would be hard because of my friend liking him too, when he asked me out my friend was devastated, she and i had fights all, the time, and she claimed she hated me and that i ruined her life, also 'how could she do that to me'. Slowly, after trying not to show our affection when we were around my friend, she slowly loosened up and got over it. Everything was fine at this point, i had good friends and a boyfriend that i loved. Me and my boyfriend had gotten intimate before, but when it came to having sex, he could never get 'it' up, we would try time and time again but after we had broken 4 condoms trying to, he was really distraught, he told me that he hated himself -

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

over 9 years

This is my life (sadly)

i fell in love with my bestfriend about a year ago, ever since i met him we were so close, he hung out with my grop of friends and whenever we would all meet up, it was just me and him talking. He'd had alot of crushes on girls, he once told me that he 'loved' this girl named issy, because she used to like him a while before and he decided he liked her too.. At the start of this year, he asked her out. She rejected him saying that she'd already found someone else, and when she said that he cried for about a month, then he started flirting with me, i heard rumors that he liked me and we were so close, i went away for 2 weeks early this year, and when i got back one of my friends told me that he said he 'is in love with me' i thought this was the most best thing in the world coz i liked him too, so i went and told my friend (girl) that i liked him. She told me that she likes him too and we just laughed it off and then the next day we both told him how we feel. He told us that he doesnt -

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

over 9 years

im dying on the inside

yesterday me and my boyfriend brokeup, before we brokeup, he told me that he had a secret that no-one can ever know, and that if i knew the secret, that we would have to breakup. He told me the secret, and he told me he was gay, he told me before hand that if he never told me that everything would be fine and we would still be happy together, but then he told me and we brokeup, he says he wants to be with me coz he loves me, but he also says he isnt attracted to girls phisically, only emotionally, he said that this is the worst hes ever felt, and that he wwishes he wasnt gay, hes also trying to see someone to make himseelf 'ungay' but i dont think its possible. I love him, and he loves me but i just dont know!

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

over 9 years

Help me please :(((((

My boyfriend has fooled around with his friends that r girls ( in the past ) but now, when it comes to getting close with me, he always has an excuse eg- too tired, or he lost his sex drive coz he wanked that morning. This six coz he was always in the mood when he was with other girls. It's really sad even know he loves me and stuff, he never wants that sorta thing. What should I do? (we've beengoinf out for 3 months)

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

over 9 years

mood uplifters?

im not allowed to use anti depressants becoz i have no money and mum wont buy them so i need some excercizes or sumthing to help me im always depressed and its screwing up my life

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

over 9 years

GREEN eyes?

how can i make my green eyes look REALLY green, using makeup etc?

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

over 9 years

eye make up ideas for deep set eyes??

does anyone know any good eye tricks for deep set eyes

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

over 9 years

bizaare love triangle - just in time for valentines day :\

in my group, there are 6 people. one of my guy friends has been friends with my girl friend for about 5 years. my girl friend has always had a crush on him and shes told him before, but he has always told her that he doesnt like her in that way. me and my guy friend have become really close and ive started loving him too. then one day i told my girl friend that i liked him and she told me the same. (and that shes never stopped liking him) so i dont know what to do. i think this guy likes me a lil bit too, but my girl friend once told me she hates seeing him with other girls coz it makes her sad and wont hang out with all of us anymore if i end up going out with this guy. i dont know what to do - my girl friend has had a pretty tough homelife and i dont want her to stop hanging with us or be sad. so what should i do...?

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

almost 10 years

about my last question...

should i sit with them for now..? coz idk who to sit with yet

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stenmore

stenmore asked:

almost 10 years

help,, i feel like giving up :'( all my friends hate me and i dont know what to do.

my friends: deni - hates me coz ages ago i sent her a comment wif a pic ov her smoking to her myspace, she didnt care at the time but yesterday her mum saw it and now she hates me coz her mum grounded her kat - hates me coz i talk about this guy that she went out wif sumtimes.. i said his name once and she had a go at me.. i didnt know. hannah - agrees with deni on everything even if she dosnt know the real story my other friends just go with them. Whenever im away they say things like: "sofia why do you like her?" and "Can we please kick her out of the group" and "Ill bash her if she does sumthing wrong" the other day, me, and my two friends ( g and a) we went to supre and tried to steal stuff, but then me and a traded bags to make it seem less suspicious coz the owner ov supre knew i was the one doing it. then she got caught and i owned up for both ov them and said they did nothing even know they knew about it. deni hates me coz she thinks i wanted a to get caught instead ov me.

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