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sowmyareddy asked:

26 Jun 2011

revealing my life's secret for a soultion

i'm 19yrs old and i have been harrassed by 7 members in my 18years as i was living in my uncles house during my school life now i 've got a bf who says he loves me truley i accepted him but evn hez like all the the time says me he want to have sex with me and to make him happy i went on a date with him and had sex..but now i'm really worried if he'll leave me and is only trapping me to have sex and its really hard for me to trust him.But when i say him about this he gets dissapointed and starts crying that i dont trust him and luv him...i'm now in a totally confused state and most importantly i never said him abt myself getting harrased and i'm very guilty for not saying him abt this..evn if i say now i donno how he will react and leave me i actually never said anyone about this but cry during nights sitting alone for hours for the thing that has happened during my childhood though i dint do any mistake i feel myself like a slut i feel like i'm used by many and i'm cheating



dragana94 says:

Posted on 26 Jun 2011

I'm so sry..First of all,it isn't your fault for anything that happened to you!!!And u're certainly not cheating your boyfriend..It's just in your head,have u tried to talk some specialist about this,i think it could make u fell about yourself.The most important thing is how u see yourself,and u should respect yourself.I think u have trust problems,that's completely normal zuc your past.So that's way I think it's good idea to talk someone who can really help u,it will help u in the future.And u will find a guy w/ who u wont have trusting problems...I wish u all the luck in this world! x


pearlypeacock says:

Posted on 26 Jun 2011

Sooooo sorry to hear about that. Being harrassed as a child can change your life, you are very impressionable then, i was followed b y a stark naked stranger when i was 13. It can take a long time to get over it. You have to get it into your head that it was not your fault. Talking about it can be hard and embarassing, if your boyfriend really does care about you then he will understand. In respect of him always wanting sex, be brave and tell him no every now and then, you dont need a reason other than "i dont feel like it" again, if he really loves yo then he will respect that. It goes two ways. Bottom line is you are NOT a slut and are not responsible for what happened x


gtan88 says:

Posted on 01 Jul 2011

Im so sorry to hear that.. :'( You have to talk to him about it, if he really cares for you, he would understand


sowmyareddy says:

Posted on 26 Jun 2011

i feel like the guy with whom i'm with is the right person for me but hez kinda alwayz wat me 2 understand him but never bothers what i'm thinking but i really love him


dragana94 says:

Posted on 26 Jun 2011

"THE RIGHT" guy will care 'bout your feelings,and he will put u first.

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