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snowdog101 asked:

25 Sep 2009

guy troubles..

Ok heres wats happened..

A few a nights ago this guy I know tht i kind of like, and is also the COUSIN of my best friend, she lives with them for now until her momcan find a house, anyway, so this guy asked me if i liked him, and i say yeah, i guess. And he said he liked me too, and then asked me out. I said no, but hes still persistent. Then I finally told him tht i dont want a BF, so he said hed wait. But the problem is tht, i like one of his friends A LOT and he likes me back, but I dont know how to tell the first guy tht I dont like him like he thinks I do. Please help me....Im so confused, and I really dont want to loose the first guy as a friend, so is there anyway to let him down gently, w/o wrecking the friendship?

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bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 25 Sep 2009

Thats a hard one! I think the best way is to just come out and tell guy #1 that you like the other guy. if guy #1 doesn't want to be your friend anymore then there's nothing you can do im afraid. but if he really likes you then he wont drop you like that just be upset.

fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 25 Sep 2009

its his fault for the most part because he put you in a situation where you could feel obligated to like him or go out with him when you'd rather not right now. you didnt do anything wrong and dont feel forced to go out with the first guy if you dont want to. if you could tell your best friend I would and see what she says about it. Thats hard because now things could get weird between yall two. is there a way to go out with guy #2 without him knowing or could you somehow hold off on going out with guy #2 until the guy#1 things blows over?

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 25 Sep 2009

it's really hard to let a guy down easy.



the old faithful is 'i just want to be friends. you're just an awesome friend and i don't ever want that to change between us."



and most guys see that as a kick to the gut. but it works for most to back off and just be friendly.



it's kinda gonna be up to the 2nd guy as well. i would say to go ahead and start hanging out more as friends. then after a while if the first guy calms down you can actually date the second

blondie_91

blondie_91 says:

Posted on 25 Sep 2009

tell him you just wanna be mates because you have such a good friendshiop and you don't wanna see that get ruined

kimz

kimz says:

Posted on 25 Sep 2009

tell him you just wanna be friends... and you only like him as a friend.. if u just keep him waiting like that it would hurt even more...

midsummer_dreams

midsummer_dreams says:

Posted on 25 Sep 2009

I'd say let him down gently. Don't bother saying anything, but instead SHOW him you'd like to be just mates. If he trys pestering you then say: "Look I really like you but I dunno.. Suppose after we go out one of us dump the other, would we still be able to remain mates? NOPE. i just dont wanna ruin our friendship" and dont flirt with the other guy for a while. Just be friendly with both. And sooner or later the first guy will start to lay off you, then you can slowly try to flirt with the other guy. xD

crazy_izzi

crazy_izzi says:

Posted on 25 Sep 2009

sai u dont want to be more then friends

so just let him down jently

crazy_izzi

crazy_izzi says:

Posted on 25 Sep 2009

but the other has also good answers

(well, better than mine)

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