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sidy_du_fierce asked:

21 Mar 2010

What Did I do wrong?

My bf and I have been dating for a year and a half now, but lately, EVERYTHING we do ends with us fighting about something. He's kinda nerdy so we hang out at a card store alot, and one day I asked him to just hang out with me and he said sure, but then when that day came He invited friends over and played video games, then he got mad at me for being upset about it. he's really un supportive of me, and insults all the things I like (music, shows, friends, art, activities).He used to cared abt when I got upset, and try to make me laugh. He used to hug me and kiss me in public and let me tease him, like he teased me, but now he never touches me, and lets his hand go limp in mine, and he's teasing has gotten mean and unloving Also, He says the fact that I say "I love you" a couple times a day is annoying and "getting old". WHat did I do? How do i fix it? Am I just losing his interest?



vampkisses says:

Posted on 21 Mar 2010

kay first of all, you did nothing worng! If I were you i would talk to him about it. Ask him why it's annoying when you remind him you love him. And why he doesnt want to hang out and insults the things you love. From there you should have your answer and know what to do. I really hope I helped. :">


vanillabb says:

Posted on 21 Mar 2010

Wow .. what a jerk , he get's mad for you telling him "i love you" ?!?

most guys love that, he's deffinatly not worth your time.

get a guy that you will actually have a fun time with.


xkatzyxfairyxdollx says:

Posted on 21 Mar 2010

omg -.-

nobody deserves that kind of treatment..I'd just let him go

He pobably did lose his interest or maybe he doesn't want a relationship anymore.

It doesn't seem as if you did anything wrong,..AT ALL.

He's the problem.IF he doesn't wanto discuss anything at all with you then he's completely ignorant and not even worth one breath.

I'm sorry ;[ I hope you'll be alright



cucumber_fanatic says:

Posted on 21 Mar 2010

This sounds like what happened to me. My bf started ignoring me, hanging out with his buddies when we had plans, not ever wanting to talk about problems, and not being affectionate. Then a couple weeks later he broke up with me. I'm not sure if you'll have the same outcome, but those sound like warning signs if there ever were any. Just remember that no matter what happens, it's not your fault. It sounds like you're a great girlfriend, and he's a fool to lose you.


barbipixi says:

Posted on 22 Mar 2010

girl this isn't your job to fix. dating is a 2 way street. you both have to want to fix it to make it work.

talk to him if he doesn't see the problem or he doesn't seem to care about it then he may just be an ass. don't stress if things don't work you're cute and you won't be single for long if that's what you want


misspatriot98 says:

Posted on 25 Mar 2010

this is not you fault at all if hes not willing to talk it out with you hes not worth your time. my friends have had this same problem and it always ended with them crying and feeling like they werent good enough and i would hate to see that happen to someone. but from what it sounds like,i dont think it could be fixed


evan_english says:

Posted on 26 Mar 2010

My dear, dear girl. You've just found out that dating is, in fact, a two-way street. In order for a relationship to work, you have to communicate, and give as well as get. If he doesn't care to put any work into it, then he flat out doesn't care about YOU. Don't feel bad that, he'll probably end up living in moms basement when he's 30 playing card a bean-bag chair......without a shirt get the idea.


sidy_du_fierce says:

Posted on 21 Mar 2010

Ive tried, but when I call him he ignores me, and when I txt him he says he doesnt want to talk to me. Im waiting for him to pick me up atm, but when I told him i wanted to discuss this with him he said he didnt want to discuss ANYHTING with me


sidy_du_fierce says:

Posted on 22 Mar 2010

as weird as it sound(and he said this to his last ex too, and she ended up dumping him) that he refuses to be the one that ends the relationship. it has to be the girl = / so even if i annoyed the hell outta him, I d have to be the one that says fuck it xD


cucumber_fanatic says:

Posted on 22 Mar 2010

Wow. That sucks. Well then it has to be up to you to decide. If he's acting terribly towards you and it's not making you feel any better, then I'd let him go, but that can be hard if you really love him. But they say that if you love someone, sometimes it's best to let them go and move on if the relationship's not working out. Good Luck, girl! XD

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