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sidy_du_fierce asked:

22 Jul 2009

am i too clingy?

So Ive been with my bf for about a year now. I love him so much and he loves me. We've never been apart for more then a day or two. But now he's family is forcing him to take a vacation with them for a week in hawaii. He didnt want to go and leave me but theY'RE making him go. We're both rather annoyed with the situation, but Im rather depressed about it. Not only that, but they arent letting him use His phone AT ALL. So he cant even call me. He's 20, but hes parents are rather controling. Im just wondering if Im being too clingy or stupid about this? Also how do I distract myself while he's gone? =[

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lucky_girl123191

lucky_girl123191 says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

I don't think you're being to clingy, but rather you're not used to being away from him for so long. But, as they say distance makes your heart grow fonder. He will be ready to tackle you when he sees you again! In the meantime, hang out with your friends or surf the web. You'll be suprised about how easy it is to take a week long break. Miss him, but don't depress yourself.

amaay

amaay says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

i agree with you, his parents do sound controlling. a bit too controlling for my likingg[; and it's normal to be upset if your other half is going away for a week without you, your bound to be sitting there wondering about him. i think it's fairly harsh that they will not let him use his mobile, too. he is twenty! no, your not being clingy t all, you love him dearly and you have never been away from him for that longg. maybe you could try and talk things through with his parents. maybe he could ring you every other daaay, so that you don't forget about each other. [not that you will thouggh]

and as for distracting yourself whilst he is gone. then you could maybe spend some time with your friends and go to the cinema and shopping and what not, you could use it as a time to hang out with your friendss[;

x

kaco14

kaco14 says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

you're not being clingy. they are it sounds likethe do't want him to grow up really if he's 20 he needs to inform his parents that it's his life and then if they won't let him use his cell phone then use the hotel room phone at night when they are asleep. don't worry you two have been togther long enough that i know he will find a way to call you =]

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

first if that boy is 20 he needs to move out of his parents house



i'm assuming he's there because hes going to college and it's really hard to go to school and have a job?



they may think that you're not good enough for their son.



and i will give it, it is a bit clingie but not bad the fact that (both of you not just you) don't want to be away from eachother for even a week. it would be cool for him to go on a family trip but they shouldn't tell him when he can or can't use his cell phone



i'm assuming they pay for that too?



but sorry he's not much of a man but i'm thinking you're pretty young too so both of you have a lil growing up to do but it gets better and if you trust him don't sweat it



just ask him to take tons of pics and have fun and take lots of photo's of things that remind him of you



ps give him a big phone card and when he get to get away he can call you long distance from any phone

sterph

sterph says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

your not being clingy at all! i would be the same way, you should see if they will let you come with. When my boyfriend was going to Oregon for 2 weeks he asked his parents if i could go. I went with them and it was a little boring lol but also fun.

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