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shadyca asked:

14 May 2010

My best friend has a problem and I don\'t know what to say to him. ):

So, he is Phillip (english version of his name xD) and he's been with this girl for 6 months. he loved her so much, he would always praise her though they were able to see each other just on the weekends cause she lives in another city. She is one year younger than us, and she broke up with him last Saturday telling him that she can't be in this kind of relationship anymore. and that devastated him. he didn't go to school on Monday or Tuesday (I didn't know they broke up). then we spoke on Tuesday and he told me what happened and that he is so disappointed in everyone, in love, life, evevryting and that he won't be able to trust anyone for a long time which kinda hurt me. and he came to school on wednesday and he was so damn depressed. just lieing on that table, doing nothing. I asked him how he was and I just got his devastated look. and it hurts me so bad to see him like that cause this isn't the same as when your girl friend breaks up with her bf. cause you know what to say to her, , she will find better, he wasn't good enough for her anyway, and the one that makes you cry is not worth you. but with him. I think still loves her (he said that by himself) and I can't go to him and trash on her because of what she has done to him. pfff, it's so much easier being in all girls society but he is my pack (along with few others) and I love him. and I can't stand looking at him while he's so depressed. he's usually the happiest person in the class. the other day he just managed to make the whole pack sad. ):




jwlover4ev says:

Posted on 14 May 2010

Awwww that's so sad!! I think he just needs some space right now to just be sad because this must have been really horrible for him. But if he's still like that. After a couple weeks you might want to try to get him into counseling. That should help a little I think.


lorii_grace says:

Posted on 14 May 2010

Remember that he's a guy - he doesn't expect you to mush and gush on him like your girlfriends would expect you to. Just be supportive and caring, and let him heal slowly. Don't try to push him forward or anything, just let him go at his own pace and LISTEN!! Be there to listen! Because that's what he needs. He might randomly pour everything out to you and just need you to be there, that's all.

There's probably more to the girls reason then he is saying to you, or she is saying to him... give it time and things will clear up...


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 14 May 2010

It can be tricky trying to solve someone's relationship/heartbreak problems because it's the ones involved who truly know the real deal. In my opinion, only time can heal the pain that comes with a break up. What you and your friends can do, though, is to cheer him up. Being sad for him will only drag him down even more.


barbipixi says:

Posted on 14 May 2010

trash talking only works if they deserve it. but it is important to help him realize it's not the end of the world and maybe it really was she couldn't handle that kind of long distance relationship and you can't force someone to do something that's hard for them.

but yea it's not over. he's still young and hasn't even begun to make a life/name in this world for himself. it's sometimes hard to realize life isn't over when someone leaves you but it's true. and trying to move on and lead a happy normal life is the best you can do for yourself.

you'll date lots of people in your life and even if they don't all pan out they'll all be a part of who you are and they'll all be important to you


juicystar07 says:

Posted on 15 May 2010

just give him some space.


shadyca says:

Posted on 15 May 2010

you're so wise *____*

this site wouldn't be as good as it is without you, really. definately, by far the best answer

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