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scriptlove asked:

01 Apr 2011

Boost your self-esteem?

Well dont know if ye get this but do ya know when you know a certain group of people dont like you or think your annoying..what do you do? There's this group of girls, ive been friends with for a good 5yrs and my group of friends is friendly with them and we all do stuff together but the other group of friends absolutly LOVE all the girls in my group(theres 5) except me like they wouldnt be txtn me asking me to do stuff or like if i try to start a convo with them sometimes there just like 'haha ya' and then dont say anything else.. so then my group of friends do stuff with them..they used to love me when i was totally myself but now ive just got paranoid and amn't being myself and dont know how to get back to it?:( Its getting me soo down! Like i still have a year left in school and dont want to be feeling like this the whole time! Please help!!

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davie2010

davie2010 says:

Posted on 01 Apr 2011

i kno the feeling that you are describing...it sux....the exact thing has happend to me b4. then i start to wonder whether its me or what?? I think what helped for me was to just make myself relax and not worry aobut it... i just turned my attention to other stuff... at the time i was also involved in this drama group 1 day a week.... so i just started to spend time taken and spending time with them... next thing i knew... i wasn't so upset any more and all my other friends just started coming back to me like it used to be.... idk if this helps...but hope it does

ninja_nikki

ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 01 Apr 2011

Yes, I also know the feeling...the best you can do is just focus on other things. Friends are not going to get you a passing grade in school are they? So just pay attention to school work, family, hobbies and I can almost promise you after a while they will start hanging out with you again. Maybe even find a new group of friends to sit next to...they'll be like wtf? Or just confront them about the situation and say you feel left out.

meggers1600

meggers1600 says:

Posted on 02 Apr 2011

I've been there one to many times and I can tell you this friends arnt forever. I've bounced from group to group because of the way they treat other people or the way they treat each other. What got me through it is simply finding something to focus on. The worst thing you can do is be paranoid about it. Once I spent 500.00 recreating my look to fit around a group of friends only to find they still picked on me for no reason. I know this sounds weird but I don't have a spacific group of friends now, nor do I really have a best friend (my boyrfriends my bestfriend of course but I mean like a girl bf) because I've been back stabbed way to much. I hang with everyone when their free. I used to think that the rest of my highschool life would be horrible but things got better once I stopped trying so hard and being paranoid and just relaxed :D
Take a step back and focus on school for a while and things will fall back into place :)

amberreed95

amberreed95 says:

Posted on 12 Apr 2011

well maybe not saying u should ditch ur friends but i mean u should find friends who are actually ur friends and if ur other friends really want to be ur friend they will follow u and try keeping in touch. the only way ur going to be happy and not feel so lonely is if ur in a group of friends in which ur happy with and can be urself

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