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Angel Scarlet




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scarlet7 asked:

27 Aug 2010

What should I do?

I have got a best friend but I dont feel that she understands me and I feel very uneasy around her.Till now I realy havent found any girl or guy that realy understands me.I feel that I am very deep and that no one else can ever understand my personality.Many guys have asked me out but I have refused because I just dont feel that they are "The One".IAnd at school many boys want to date me,mstly because they want to be my first because I never dated.Im in9th grade and i know that I have got a whole life ahed of me and I should enjoy or atleast start dating but I just dont feel anything about the guys that ask me out.What should I do about my friend and should I start dating?



myradiosayslala says:

Posted on 27 Aug 2010

i totally agree with maeve, don't worry about dating ,the right guy will show up eventually... and have a good conversation with your best friend, say the same thing you've just posted here...

it's important to feel comfortable around her



vanillabb says:

Posted on 27 Aug 2010

oh my gosssh , im going threw the same thing with one of my best freinds , I feel like I can't talk to her about deep stuff & we only have shallow small conversations, she just dosn't know the real me . & I feel like I can't act myself around her because she might not like the real me . Im hanging out with her soon so i'm going to have to act "natural" & myself around her & if she dosn't like me then , she's not worth it .. you should do the same.

& guys can wait , thier not that important until you get much much older .


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 27 Aug 2010

Your instincts will tell you when the right guy comes along. So hold out for a lil while. Dating someone you're not really into is just a waste of time, really.

OKay, maybe your just uncomfy around your friend because you haven't really been friends for very long?? whatever the reason, as long as she treats you well, the friendship is worth nurturing. Or maybe it's you who's holding back. Be yourself. Try to open up a little more by asking her advice--real friends always listen and help out. You'll be surprised at how your bond grows stronger instantly.


sliq says:

Posted on 27 Aug 2010

i have had some trouble with that too, i just moved and i still have my best friend from where im from to talk to but i need somebody here u know and ij ust cant seem to click with anybody.. but i know PATIENCE IS THE KEY. and telling her how u feel might be a good idea but i think if u dont feel comfortable u cant MAKE urself feel comfortable.

and with dating i think its a good idea not to date ! :)

ive given up on that now too well because it just brings too much drama.

and theres soo much time, im not in any rush and u shouldnt either ;)


urangel4eva says:

Posted on 02 Oct 2010

try opening up to your friend- tell her how you feel abut stuff but don't go too far or talk for too long. just explain something thats on your mind. give it a few gos over a few days and if you still feel the same way about her just do the whole, "oh, sorry- dont know what came over me those few days" and move on with your friendship the way its going now. i dont think its a good idea to completely forget about her or say shes not worth it because every friend is worth it in some way. you might need her in time or she may need you....

as for dating make your first guy count- go out with a guy for love not just for the experience. i reckon there is someone out there for everyone- someday your perfect guy will come along and you will know that its time to start dating

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