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sammiexoxo asked:

06 Jun 2009


okay this is how it all started i wanted 2 go 2 my friend olgas house and i told my mom a week earler she alrite but the thing is i cant go anywhere unless my dad approves my mom said she will talk 2 my dad 4 me because i was shy when the dayy came after skool i asked her if she could drop me off and she said as if it werent planned omg i was like crushed and i was soo sad that i went 2 my room and cried my mom thought i was disrespecting her 4 crying but can u blame a person 4 being sad when they were looking 4ward 2 a good day nope soo my mom told me 2 get outt of her house and go somewhere else so i did wat i was told 2 do and i started packing and then she called the cops and said that there was a vallant in the house i dont know what that means but i know its bad my dad came and he said i am never allowed 2 do anything with my bff he said i dont need her shes the inly person i have that i could talk 2 i cannot let her goo so now idk wat 2 but i know i shouldnt let her goo how do i get more freedom because i cant go 2 the movies with friends i cant even watch tv without my parents in the house im 13 not 3 plzz how do i get more freedom



undeadxprincess says:

Posted on 06 Jun 2009

you need to gain their trust. I went through a similar problem. the only thing you can do is do what they tell you to do without complaining, and after a while if they think your behaviour is up to their standards they'll start loosening up. just do what they say and things should be alright.


amaay says:

Posted on 06 Jun 2009

trust is probably the main issue here, your parents probably don't trust you enough, for you to do anything on your own.

just do whatever they tell you to do, for the time being, and nothing else, eventually they should start to see that you are trustworthy and they may trust you more. :]


owen3 says:

Posted on 06 Jun 2009

just ignore em an do it any way


barbipixi says:

Posted on 06 Jun 2009

first is your dad african?

i know alot of african families have a "dad's the law" type of life

but either way it sounds like what your dad say's goes and your mom is second. that means you are probly thought of a lil bit like you're dad's property

they don't want you to grow up too fast. they don't want to loose the lil girlness. and you should respect and not question anything they say.

it's hard to prove to your parents you're old enough to be trusted when they don't want to give you those oppertunities to mess up even.

it's apart of growing up. you're suppost to make a few mistakes and be able to learn from them. but you also should have the knowledge to go into most situations and be able to make the right choices. either way you need to let them know you feel this way and you want to be able to come to them so they can help you with some of the choices that will be comming up as you get older but you feel everytime you try to do something for yourself it's frowned upon.

it makes you scared and nervous instead of sure and confident. and to be a real WOMAN you need to learn to stand for yourself and be able to respect yourself. but you need the ability to do these things before you grow up to be insecure and unsure of your own decisions


missymm says:

Posted on 07 Jun 2009

ugh, im almost 15 and my parents are the same way..except mine havent kicked me out,surprisingly i have been waiting for that..i have plans! :P but anyway if you figure out how to do that whole "get more freedom" thing LET ME KNOW! please!! >.<

sorry i couldnt help.

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