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samigore asked:

04 Jun 2009

all we do is argue

So me and my bf are always happy together when we see each other..and then the next day we will be talking on aim or something and he'll be yelling at me telling me that he wants to kill himself.. what do i do?



btw..he wont listen to me when i tel lhim that it hurts when he says it

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gbpkid

gbpkid says:

Posted on 04 Jun 2009

what you need to do is articulate your feelings to him, if he refuses to listen, then nothing will change. dont just say it hurts, describe the actual feeling. Try getting him help, councilling or maybe just talking through problems. Communication is key to any relatonship and without it one will never work. Xx

_yo0t_

_yo0t_ says:

Posted on 05 Jun 2009

if he keeps hurting you like this then i say he isn't worth it... especially if he's suicidal.. he's probably gonna guilt trip you into something.



or if you just want to help him then i say just tell him your feelings and just hope he understands how much he means to you. i agree with gbpkid completly

rachelsauras

rachelsauras says:

Posted on 05 Jun 2009

i've dealt with many suicidal friends.

telling them it hurts never worked so I learned to switch my approach.

it may sound harsh but if he won't listen ask him what good would come out of his death and list the negative aspects

like:

he won't be with you.

if his life is bad it'll of ended that way and he'd never see the good things the world has to offer.

everyone around him would be hurt, let down, or become depressed themselves.

tell him he's strong enough to get through whatever he's going threw and it'd be stupid to give up now.

and if he still does it just tell him you don't want to give up on him but he's obviously going to do whatever he wants anyway and you're either not going to stand in his way or involve outside help.



im srry btw bby.

:/

x

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 05 Jun 2009

sorry to say it but he may just think he's not getting enough attention or thinking (in his subcontious) he's not getting the right type of love



some people crave certain situations and types of attention. y would he want to kill himself?



he's got a girl who loves him, he's got his whole life ahead of him. what's wrong. did they cut off his cell phone? did his car get repoed? is he loosing his job?



wait does he still live at home with mom and dad? do they love him? if you anwsered yes to these then he needs some help that you probly can't give him.



he could be using that as an excuse to keep you around him and feeling sorry for him.



if he's afraid of loosing you tell him that. if he's so afraid he needs to talk to someone and get some help. you know in your heart and your head it's not your problem, he probly doesn't have backing for saying that



and also just so you know... that's a form of mental abuse because he knows it hurts you and he keeps doing it : P

amaay

amaay says:

Posted on 05 Jun 2009

i agree with 'BarbiPiXi' he might just want attention or maybe he needs councilling or something like that. [:

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