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samantha_xd asked:

08 Jul 2009

my boyfriend thinks he's not good enough for me.

i don't know what to do. i've tried telling him over and over, but he doesn't listen long.



we've dated before now and back then he was immature and pretty much a dick. that was in 9th & we dated two months. he broke up with me then because he didn't feel like he was good enough or a good boyfriend.



so now.. almost 8 months into our relationship (we're seniors now & we had been best friends for most of junior year, so we're really close).. and he's really sweet and nice and shows that he cares.. but sometimes he has a short temper and gets mad at me over stupid stuff. he feels really bad afterwards.. and now he's starting to feel like he isn't good enough again..

i honestly don't know what to do. :(

i feel so bad.



any advice? :(

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barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 08 Jul 2009

tell him it's fine if he think's he's not good enough



you know why



you won't be able to change what he thinks. and would you want him thinking he's good enough? that he doesn't need to show you how important you are to him? like you should do back.



let him know you think he's awesome too and it's fine for you guys to think eachother is awesome but that gives you a reason to be there each day and try to show how much you care



if he thinks he's not good enough then he should be striving to be good enough because he's the guy you want and you'll do anything for. all he has to do is keep trying and that makes him a great guy

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 08 Jul 2009

no body's perfect and you never said you wanted anyone to be : P

samantha_xd

samantha_xd says:

Posted on 08 Jul 2009

:) thanks.

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 08 Jul 2009

I also agree with Barbi... I have used positive reinforcement on my boyfriend just to reassure him.. sometimes. But I also know that it makes him feel better and more confident inside. My bf does not have confidence issue really, but I can kinda sense when I should throw it in there. Then he started complimenting me and saying little sweet things to me on occasion now so.. it is nice. it soften our relationship up where to he can express to me any problems or issues he has.

indira

indira says:

Posted on 08 Jul 2009

he'll break up with you soon

amaay

amaay says:

Posted on 08 Jul 2009

tell him that he will always be good enough for you as you love him and he loves you. be positive about each other, love each other and try not to argue over the sillyest of things. as long as he trys his hardest to do his best and he trie to be good enough for you then that is all you can ask of. (:

x

fairy16

fairy16 says:

Posted on 08 Jul 2009

barbipixi is right

paigee

paigee says:

Posted on 08 Jul 2009

BarbiPiXi is right :thumbup:

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