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samatha bailey

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I'm 16.
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samantha_scelestic asked:

26 Mar 2009

HELP!!!! Im having horrible self esteem issues right now...

I am really sorry about this. I just seem to be having a really bad self esteem problem today.



it goes like this:



My face broke out [its 22 days before PROM!!!]

I gained 2 pounds

I worry my boyfried doesn't think i am attractive

My mom just called me a failure

I am fighting with a close friend

AND

I have been tanning for a month and nothing is happening.



GAH life seems to suck today... please help and i feel really desperate cause it seems like i am just fishing for compliments, but im not. i really just am having a bad day and i need help turning it around..., oh and the reason my weight is an issue is because I do work out. every day! gah....

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saya

saya says:

Posted on 26 Mar 2009

Hai there! Its alright, you're not fishing for compliments. I know how it gets sometimes. Ok, the best thing to do for pimples, is dont wear make up and wash your face with an acne cleanser daily, twice a day every day till prom, and moisturize moisturize moisturize! And afcourse, gaining two pounds isnt much but if you honestly want to lose it, all you have to do is follow a pretty simple diet of portion control. Buy 2 portion controlled dinners, have a light snack in between. 2-3 snacks should be good, that way you're never hungry, and if you do get hungry, have some fruit. lol and some excersise too, thats really good for you. And NEVER SKIP BREAKFAST! Thats a common mistake alot of people make. As for the boyfriend thing, I understand completely, I feel the same way sometimes, but just remmeber if he didnt think you were not only smart but also beautiful, he wouldnt be with you. I bet he thinks you're the most attractive girl in the world and the only girl he probably sees is you. The mother..well...You could always say that you didnt appreciate the comment, but just let it go. Sometimes the people we hurt the most, are the people we love the most, because we know we'll always be forgiven by them. The close friend thing, give it time, cool off, back off, do whatever, just dont rush it. I'm not sure what to do about the tan since I'm naturally tan, but yeah, thats all the answers I can give. I hope I was some help, good luck. :)

leask

leask says:

Posted on 26 Mar 2009

Heeya! Okay, my mum gets on at me the WHOLE time, for not doing well at school. Seriously though she doesn't mean it. Your mum was probably in a really stressy mood, which causes people to say things when they don't actually mean it. As for prom don't worry. Just lay off the make-up and thngs so you don't put more pressure on them. Get a deep cleansing product, like a 2-in-1 sorta thing, something to help blackheads as well (just to prevent any more coming out:D). Then use when you wake up and just before you go to bed. For your wieght, I don't think 2 pounds is a lot, but if your stessing out then go for a half an hour jog. Nothing drastic but lightly. It's best to do either in the evenings or morning. But don't eat anything before hand. Now your boyfriend, to be honest if you didn't think you were attractive he wouldn't be with you, or taking you to prom. If your still feeling worried, ask him over for a nice night in and watch a film and eat loads, but like healthy stuff. You'll have an amazing night and you'll realise you had nothing to worry about in the first place. Okay now your tan, to you it won't be working, but it probably is. It might not change your colour drastically, but a tone up from your orginal skin colour. It's better if you keep it a tone or two higher, then you won't turn into a pumpkin, I've seen it happen, not a pretty site. But stay positive:D. Close friends fall out time to time. You guys need to sit down and figure out why your fighting. Don't raise your voice, and stay calm. You'll begin to feel more and more relaxed. She'll probably be grateful that you took the first step because she's probably scared of doing it herself. Anyways, I hope I've helped. And I hope prom is good, I've never been to one, well considering I live in Scotland. So make it extra special for me ;):D

abbygirl08

abbygirl08 says:

Posted on 28 Mar 2009

every year, neverfails, first day back to school i get mount rushmore(huge pimple) on my nose. It happens to the best of us.

2 pounds? thats not a big deal. drop snacking for a week and bye bye two pounds

if hes dating u, he thinks ur attractive.

she was probably just stressed out. I can assure u ur mom regrets ever saying that.

If ur fighting with ur friend, whatever it is, drop it. nothing is important enough to lose a friendship over.

Just remember odds r u were probably on the verge of pms when u posted. stupid hormones. Im sure everything is going to turn out great. goodluck with prom. im sure u will look great

naailvarnish

naailvarnish says:

Posted on 05 Apr 2009

this is just a taste of teenage years i suppose, every one becomes really self concious.



when actually, alot of other people dont care what you look like,



Have a day chilling around the house, watching some tv etc.

And just remember not to think looks and weight is everything. its more about personality. :)

cottonmade

cottonmade says:

Posted on 05 Apr 2009

AZ FAR AZ DA FAM. & FRIEND THING GO PRAY.

& PROM BE SEXXXXXY I DONT CARE WUT IT IS DO U U GOT 2 FEEL SEXY 2 LOOK SEXY !!!!!





UR BF MUST THINK UR HOT HE'S STILL WIT U !!!!



DONT WORRY JUS DO U ! U DIGG!!!!

chl0eh0pe

chl0eh0pe says:

Posted on 01 May 2009

Hey, it could be worse...



My face broke out about three years ago and has never seemed to recover lol and i no longer have a boyfriend!

(Also, i have a really really painful papercut ouch!)



You gained two pounds... so what? You look really skinny in ur pic as far as i can tell (No double chin or anything!)



Dont worry you and ur friend will all work out and im pretty sure ur mum didnt mean it.



You work out everyday? Wow i admire you lol! Im so lazy its unbelievable.



Things will all be fine dont you worry

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