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samantha_scelestic asked:

09 Mar 2009

EX GIRLFRIEND ISSUE...HELP!!!! I am having extreme jealousy.

My boyfriend dated his ex for 1.5 years. She is so pretty in a skater/punky way. He loves that. Now if I put myself in a group, I would be scene. He loves me, but sometimes I feel compared to her and how their relationship was... And I am not always the most confident with my appearence so her being amazingly beautiful, a bigger chest and nicer butt (sorry those things bother me) and she is genuinly sweet... He left her for me, but sometimes I feel like he still loves her, and it doesnt help that they go to school together and are good friends.... while I am stuck 20 miles away at a different school... what should I do, can you help me not be so jealous? I know its not a good quality.

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mfcc_

mfcc_ says:

Posted on 09 Mar 2009

Your jealousy is probably a result of being paranoid because you think you might lose him. In your mind you're always going to compare what you and him have to what him and his ex had, you can't think like that. If he left her for you he obviously sees something in you that he didn't in her, if the fact that she has a bigger chest and a nicer butt really mattered to him, why would he have left her? Of course, he's going to have feelings for her still, she's his ex, everyone still has feelings for at least one of their ex's. However, I doubt those feelings are as strong as they once were. So, you shouldn't worry about it as much as you are, it will start problems in your relationship. If it really bothers you, just talk to him about it. What you have to remember is that he's with you and he loves you, you're the present and possibly the future, she's the past.

lil_leprecorn_xp

lil_leprecorn_xp says:

Posted on 09 Mar 2009

stuff her lol ask if he loves her y would he be dating u and if he loved her y did he dump her ?!?!;)

jessie_elisa

jessie_elisa says:

Posted on 09 Mar 2009

Yeah that can be hard. My boyfriend dated a girl for 2 years and says that she was the first girl he ever loved. She's 3 years older than me (2 years older than him), she has a bigger chest, she's slightly skinnier, they're practically best friends, and he even lost his virginity to her. Jealousy can be rough but you have to remember that they're not with their ex. They're with you for a reason. From what I can see in your pic, you're very pretty, so stop being so insecure. If you're still having issues, talk to your boyfriend about them.

oo_christine_oo

oo_christine_oo says:

Posted on 09 Mar 2009

i think u should be patient and discuss it with ur boyfriend..as his girlfriend you have to open minded to him..maybe he can take a decision..i'm sure..if he still love u, he won't make u jealous anymore..good luck, sis..

oo_christine_oo

oo_christine_oo says:

Posted on 09 Mar 2009

i think u should be patient and discuss it with ur boyfriend..as his girlfriend you have to open minded to him..maybe he can take a decision..i'm sure..if he still love u, he won't make u jealous anymore..good luck, sis..

jessd

jessd says:

Posted on 09 Mar 2009

I know how jealously works! I do understand what your feeling and i think everyone goes throw that sometimes in there life. Just sit down with him and talk about it. Tell him that u don't think your better than his ex and how that makes u feel. I get jealous alot of girls cause they are all skinnier than me but i think on what i have. Just think that u have him and she doesn't. Always look postive!

And just maybe hes that the kind of person to go out with you just because ur looks. He dumbed her for you!! Thats good if u ask me. I think we are all pretty in our own way and maybe he sees the pretty on you more than her.



I won't change your appearance for anyone, just for yourself!

I hope this feels you, and maybe ur relationship with all the jealouly:D

jessd

jessd says:

Posted on 09 Mar 2009

i just read over what i wrote ..

one part i messed up on.

I meant maybe hes not the kind of person that goes after looks!!:D

aromaled

aromaled says:

Posted on 09 Mar 2009

remember he left her 4 YOU dnt think about her think about you dnt think about the negative but the posative why he loves all your features that are great maybe in his eyes ur the pretty one not her nd personality is important 2 just b real nd dnt lose yourself meaning dont forget who you are by tryin to be who this boy wants...us girls go through this everyday nd dont be jelious cuz they r friends member that your his gf wich means more

hope i helped a lil :)

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