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rockqueenbre asked:

11 Jan 2012

Cute Guy. Bad rep

There is this guy. he is super hot and he likes me. But he is a really big player. I want to go out with him but I'm afaird he is ging to play me. He is the hottest guy in school. He tried to kiss me in public a couple of times but i moved away. he is really sweet, cheesy and funny. But he uses line he uses on other girls. He told me he likes me but idk what to do. He was also dating my friend while trying to ask me out. then he broke up with her and wants me. Please help!!!!!



brittanylynnfleiger says:

Posted on 12 Jan 2012

Love is always worth a try! Go for it... If it doesn't work, then there is always other guys. :)


silence_ says:

Posted on 12 Jan 2012

Well, let's use our little minds:
1. He was dating your friend. YOUR FRIEND. and just moves onto you. Sloppy seconds? No thank you.
2. He's a huge player. A PLAYER. And he does most of what he's doing to you, to other girls. What makes you so sure, he won't do what he did to your friend, to you?
3. Guys like these, especially when young, don't really care much for girls. They'll jump from girl to girl and not feel remorse about it. That's right, essentially, after the breakup you'll be sad, and they will already be hitting it up with the next person.

You need to be wise and just say no, because I can almost guarantee, he won't be phased, and he won't feel bad, he'll just move onto the next girl on his list. However, if he continues to try to ask you out, it shows some genuine interest and you can proceed to date him if you really don't care to hurt your friend's feeling and make them upset more knowing that you're dating the guy who recently broke up with them.

Your fear is justified. He screams, ' no good' to me, and so if I were you, i'd be the one girl , he'd never get, the one who would have the lovely opportunity to say 'he never played me", but then again, I sometimes end up thinking too highly of myself to let guys like that play me. Be the thing they can see, but never touch. You deserve better than a mere player. And if he truly likes you and is interested, don't be afraid, because if it's true, he'll do whatever he can , to try and be with you.


dragana94 says:

Posted on 12 Jan 2012

With players us always risky,we always think that we are the ONE who can change him.You have some "red flags",that can tell you what to do.
He was dating your friend and ask you out.What's that all about,he supposed to break up with,then ask you out,but yet she is your friend and that's always awkward.
He is a player,he uses same line on other girls,that's a NO,you aren't other girls,he should tell you words witch are just for you.
He tried to kiss you in public,well one thing is being confident and in relationship,and one thing is just showing off.And if he's young,then it's just about having more girls.

I'm not trying to ruin your dreams,just my opinion.You should say no to this one,even tho he's hot etc..There will be more hot guys but not players.But if he keeps showing interest in you,doing everything possible to show you his feelings,then don't be afraid.


renderella says:

Posted on 14 Jan 2012

So I'm just going to take a wild guess from your picture and say that you are probably in Middle school or a freshman in high school....
SO at this stage and any stage really we ladies tend to choose bad guys. We are always attracted to the guys we know our parents really wouldn't want us with. When you get older you get a little bit more sane.
Okay, it's great that this guy is super hot and likes you, but do you really want a guy who would break up with someone to be with you? What happens when he finds another girl that would kiss him in public and he dumps you?
I understand that he may pretend to be a good guy, but the words "player" and "really sweet" don't actually go together. If he was really sweet he would be a player. He wouldn't want to try and kiss a girl in public without her permission. He wouldn't break up with a girl just to date one of her friends, and you shouldn't be so eager to snatch him up.
If this guy is that hot I'm sure there are the .......certain type of girls who want him too. Do you really want a guy who is going to run around with other girls and most likely break your heart? Why would you want to put yourself through that?
I'm thinking that you are thinking more about his looks than his personality.
You should try to watch him and just evaluate how he acts when he is with his guy friends and when he is around other girls. Does he flirt with every girl? Does he brag to his friends about the girls he has kissed? How do you know him and his friends aren't having a contest to see who could pull the most girls?
Well V-day ( I dislike this day) is in a months time and I would hate for you to be taken for a fool by this guy and end up with no one that day.....

Well gluck dear! -_^


mimi_anetionete says:

Posted on 15 May 2012

just... don't

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