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rachel caroline




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I'm Rachel.:3
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rachelsauras asked:

29 Mar 2010

hey guyss.:)//[family problems.]:)

I havnt forgoten bg!

I know its been a while.

but ive had a lott going on.

for ex.

Im having major problems at home.

to be breif my household is really verbally and occasionaly physically

abusive. along with other things such as my mom && her bf doing drugs

and whatevahh. i got in a big blowout with my mom left, had the cops called on me, reported the abuse to my school, went through a day of complete hell,all to end up back here.:/

and of course this is what always happens. I know I shouldnt have to put up with this. but now my moms being ohh so nice to me which always happens after something big. but once again last night well things got really bad between me and my moms bf. and she told me shed help me get in a group home if I really wanted. I only have three years left. should I just suffer through it or even though it didnt work the first time, take a stand?

Im just so confused and fed up and blehh.:(

opinions bbess?




jaydde_woodrow says:

Posted on 29 Mar 2010

oooww, im sorry to hear that, and in no way do you have to put up with that type of abuse, you have rights as a human being, if i were you, i wouold move out, go somewhere, do you have any friends that you could move in with or other family members as a group home, isnt that good of a place to be. it sounds like your mum and her bf have a few problems that they need to sort out and in no way do you have to be involved with them while thay are like this. if you dont mid me asking what did the police and your school say about it?? if you want to talk about it any more message me and i will give you my email, as i know how it feels to go through what you are going through


misspatriot98 says:

Posted on 30 Mar 2010

i thankfully have never beed though abuse but many of my family memebers had and i understand your frustration and state of confusion but staying in an abusive home isnt good if you mother is willing to let you stay at a group home it would be better than staying in a home where your at risk of being seriously abused. many people dont see verbal abuse a s being a threat but it really is. more people commit suicide from verbal abuse than physical(not saying i think your that type of person) but you need to leave your mother until she can sort out her problems


misscherie says:

Posted on 01 Apr 2010

in these situations theres really no way out. ive been there, its hard. but u just hve to tough it out, keep your grades up and get a scholarship to college and then ur free.


firefox_12 says:

Posted on 13 Dec 2010

Gotta get out of there. It's your mom and her bf's load of shit. There's no reason that should carry over to you getting hurt. Your mother might see that, idk. But Really, you should move out. like MissCherie said, you should get yourself a scholarship, earn a little money, go to college, and after that you are free from all this. Remember, three years is an awful long time. Not saying that you have to do this, just a suggestion. good luck with whatever you think is right, hun. :)


rachelsauras says:

Posted on 29 Mar 2010

the cops were complete assholes.

along with the cys lady.

apparantly its my moms decision on whether their allowed to take me away?

idk it was bullshit. and thats what makes me feel like I dont know if I have the strength to go

through all of that again in order to move out. what ended up happening was a safety plan

was signed saying if they hit me I call the cops and they'll come get me. but that doesnt stop the verbal abuse. not to mention i doubt even if they do hit me or something ill tell anyone agian. cus it got me nowhere. i do have a friend whos mom said shes willing to get custody of me. but my mom is so against it, so in order for that to work out id have to go to a group home for a little while. aha and my mom and her bf have a jillion problems the need to sort out. I told my mom this and she made me feel all guilty saying she tries her hardest and doesnt mean to ruin my life. but I told her if she really wants me to be happy she'd help me get away from the situation. soo. idk. I think Im moving out this summer? but even though I know whats best im not sure what I really want.x(

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