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rachelsauras asked:

01 Oct 2009

:( :( [I know I'm in awful personD=]

okay soo.

I honestly just watched my friend get hit by a car, no joke.D:

and it's all my fault to. I was on the other side of the road, and he was

like Rachel! wait there. and then he walked out and was hit.X(

it was the scariest damn thing I've ever witnessed. && if I hadn't been

there it would never of happened. and to make it all worse, when the

police were talking to him, I was laughing with my friend isabelle. not about him, but because I got so nervous and really wanted to cry.(which trust me,

as soon as we left I broke down)

and like. I told him I was sorry, but he was like this isn't a fucking joke.:(

so he thought I was making fun of him. and it really hurt.

I don't know if he'll be back tommarow. hopefully he is though, and

I want to know how to apologize to him. what would you guys say?

I want him to know I was just as scared. and definately didn't find it funny.

and how I bawled my eyes out. but like. I don't know how to exactly put it.

and also. earlier today I ditched this kid. I hate feeling mean, and I think I should apologize to him too. but should I make up an excuse? what would it be? thanks lovies.x

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cucumber_fanatic

cucumber_fanatic says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

Just tell him the truth about everything. in a situation like this, lying will only make things worse when he discovers them.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 02 Oct 2009

just tell him what you told us. i do things like that sometimes too when i get really nervous i smile more and yea i giggle and snicker but really it's all just trying to hide how upset i am inside.



tell him it was aweful and you weren't laughing because anything was funny, cause it totally wasn't, but it's like a freak out and it's the only thing your body could do. and let him know as soon as the shock was over you were crying all over the place



oh and bring him some of his fav candy and buy him a new release to say your sorry : P

cookiemonstuh

cookiemonstuh says:

Posted on 02 Oct 2009

i dont think it was your fault. things happen. he was in the wrong place at the worng time. you can apologize if you want to, but i think it will be to make yourself feel better about the whole thing. just explain it too him and hope his okay, and for the best. good luck(:

fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 02 Oct 2009

it sounds like your a bit of a melodramamatic who is not sure how to react in different situations. you should just apologize and hope he takes it. youll be alright just realize sometimes you have to screen your reactions because others will mistake them for insensitivity

bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 02 Oct 2009

Yeah tell him what you told us, and then you can have your friend Isabelle back up your story if he dont believe you. thats pretty much you can do, im sure he'll believe you , maybe not right away but give him time. and that wasn't your fault. i mean it could have been the other way around and it was you that got hit, just say if that car was there a little sooner, but would you consider that it was his fault that your got hit? I don’t think you would. I mean thats just life.

crazy_izzi

crazy_izzi says:

Posted on 02 Oct 2009

tell him the truth

u know what send him what u wrote us he will understand

send him how u feel and how awefull u feel

hope it helps and everything goes well,

xx

izzi

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 02 Oct 2009

I would just tell him exactly what happened on your side. Tell him how you think it was your fault and that you got really nervous and scared. You can bring him a Get well soon card and maybe a teddy bear. a nice gesture would be nice bc he was walking over to you when the incident happened.

jessd

jessd says:

Posted on 02 Oct 2009

tell him exactly what you told us..

you should not lie .. trust mee..



just say whats on your heart.

bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 02 Oct 2009

Everybody handles emotions definitely, we dont all burst into tears. like when something happens i go emotionless, dont cry, dont laugh nothing, most the time i act like nothing ever happened. ppl think im pretty cold cause i cant even cry at funerals (Ill cry my heart out tho like a few weeks or even months afterwards cause thats when it actually hits me what happened) i guess thats just how i react when something goes horribly wrong.

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