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queen_bree asked:

23 Feb 2010

Okay, Have I Got A Sob Story For You Guys...

I could go on and on, but for your sake, I'll shorten this as much as I can. I'm 13. About a month ago, my 15 year old boyfriend pressured me into having sex with him. Anyone who knows me would say I'm the LAST person they would expect to do something like that. And then, thanks to a girl in my 1st hour class who just happened to see us leave the bathroom (yes, very trashy, I know) the whole school knows. And then, to top it all off, about a week after that, I found out the jerk was cheating on me. So I dumped his sorry ass. It's been a month and random people STILL come up to me and say stuff like, "Keep 'em CLOSED, Bree!" And everyone, including people I once called my best friends, and even my MOM call me a whore or a slut. (Yes, my mom found out. I'm grouned for life.) That was my first and only time! How does that make me a slut??? Just anyone please, give me some advice on what to do. I'm lost and would give anything for just a piece of my old life back...

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fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 23 Feb 2010

wow really sucks. i would realize the bad decision and the consequences and learn from them. it takes time and maturity shown to everyone else 9even those who are not jerks) to get things back to normal. you are stronger than this-you critics are no better than you and if you can remember what you yourself know is good and and do it not what others think of you then that will really help you. you can try getting it out in the open, admit your mistake, admit the bathroom was probly a bad idea and dating that jerk def was, but if they continue to treat you like that then theyre the trashy ones

shinja

shinja says:

Posted on 23 Feb 2010

Okey. I think I found a solution. Well, the only possible solution. Listen, you can't possibly get your old life back now. The only solution is to start fresh.

My first thought was just starting on a new school. But since even your mother call you a slut, it wouldn't be enough. Besides, there's a big chance that if you start on some school close to the old one, that theres someone in the schools who know each other. Which will make the rumor spread on the new school and make it start all over.

I would personaly try getting into a boarding school far away from you home and your old school. If its far away the chances of someone from you old school knowing someone from the boarding school very slim. It the only solution where you can really start on a fresh.

There is two problems with starting on a boarding school that far away. The first is that you will feel quite alone at first. You will be away from you family and friends and not have a chance to see them very often. That of course will be tough. But after you lost most of your friends and your mom is calling you a slut, I think it will be the best. You will make new and better friends, and you will not have to be reminded of your mistake every day.

Now the other problem is alot worse. Your mother is very mad at you, and she doesn't trust you. So getting her to agree on you leaving and going far away so she can't watch over you might be hard. But honestly, if you want your life back to normal it probably the only solution. If you write to me and tell me more I'll do my best to guide you. I really hope it will work out for you. :(

vampkisses

vampkisses says:

Posted on 23 Feb 2010

omg that must be hard for you. like shinja says below boarding school might be a good idea. but if your mom wont let you go then see if you can do home school or school online. does your mom know it was pier pressure? that you didnt mean to...you guys used protection right? well if you want to message me im here.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 23 Feb 2010

there's not alot you can do. it's one of those things if you would have had stronger back up it would have helped



you just have to accept that it happened and try to keep your own morals in mind from now on. only time can make it better. but your mom should not call you that it's peer pressure and your young shit happens.



just try to remember anything you don't think is a good idea probly isn't.



keep doing right and stick strong. things will fall off but it'll take some time that's one of those big mistakes that doesn't go away over night

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