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purty_j0ezy_4 asked:

30 Jul 2009

I'm scared for my BF\'s safety

ok, so, i hav this boyfrend. nd wer like the best couple in the world, he is very sweet, nd loves me. nd i wud hat for anything bad to happen to him. he is in a football team, nd he is really good at it, its just that football is a very tuff sport, nd i dont want him to get hurt. i mean, i dont want to sound like a control freak or anything, because im not, i just dont want him to get hurt. and i mean, the reason i worry is because he has gotten hurt before, nd i would hate for it to happn again. is there some way i could fix this problem? because i mean, i cant just say "honey, stop playin football" nd i dont want him to think i am like too over it u know, because i am not. Help please!!!

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babiijuiciix3

babiijuiciix3 says:

Posted on 30 Jul 2009

it is sweet my new mad is a college football player gonna go far he ripped a muscle and stuff and has to go into surgery next month but if you think about hes a man they take the pain better than you think and he could have a good future in that its fine to worry but nobody is safe doing anything in this world but just let him have his thing because he might get mad if you try to tell him what to do idk if i helped but football is a tough sport but it can get someone far

auri

auri says:

Posted on 30 Jul 2009

Well, you can always expect theres a possibility that someones gonna get hurt in a sport.



Its just...happens. Thats kinda how life is i suppose, as long as its not like life threatening.



Maybe just let him know your worried about him, and im sure he'll be okay. Im sure the worst that could happen is he gets a broken bone, but if he has his stuff on im sure it would prevent him from getting hurt.



I know your worried about him, but just try to support him...and think to yourself that he loves doing it and he'll be okayy =]

ilovepink2011

ilovepink2011 says:

Posted on 30 Jul 2009

dont mess with him about something he loves. or you might as well leave him.

reverie_09

reverie_09 says:

Posted on 30 Jul 2009

you'll have to face that he can get hurt anytime! I kinda agree that you shouldn't meddle with things that he enjoys 'cause you'll make him unhappy and he won't want to be with you. Be careful when you're playing with fire.

xvanillacupcakee

xvanillacupcakee says:

Posted on 30 Jul 2009

My bf is going to be in the Drug Enforcement Agency. He's gonna get shot at all the time, and I am a target as well.



Just think about how you're not in that situation. lol.

starz

starz says:

Posted on 31 Jul 2009

even if he stops playing football theres a chance he could get hurt when he steps out of his home!!!! try to encourage his skills then stop them!!!!!

tornjeansxo

tornjeansxo says:

Posted on 31 Jul 2009

its a sport.

you can get hurt in anything.

i think you need to calm down. :P

i'd be worried too but just try

to calm down about it.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 31 Jul 2009

and then you would be a control freak if you insisted on him quitting a sport he loves



i'm sorry but it's your problem you need to fix he's just fine



keep in mind a police man's wife worries about him constantly but know's he's doing something he loves and he's helping people. and it's not her place to say what he should and shouldn't do with his body



you can worry about him and tell him to be careful and you love him, and be safe. but you cannot tell him to quit what he does that's all on him. and football can be dangerous but so can driving a car.



are you going to tell him he can't drive? he could get really hurt? no you're going to say be safe, drive careful, and wear your seatbelt. he's a guy. he can take some stuff. when you watch him play get him a drink so he stays hydrated so he doesn't cramp or get dehydrated.



being a good girlfriend involves talking to him about being worried but knowing it's not your place to tell him how he should live. you support him and his choices like you want him to support you.


purty_j0ezy_4

purty_j0ezy_4 says:

Posted on 31 Jul 2009

well, um, thatnx for ur support LOLzz =D

nd, seriously, mi best wishes 4 u nd ur bf, hop nuthn bad happns "/

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