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pensivevide asked:

10 Mar 2009

I need some serious getting-over-breakup advice.

It's been about a year and a half now. I'm still not over what happened. It's traumatized me. They say you never forget your first love. He wasn't even my first love, and he's scared me in more ways the most of the people on this planet that I hate. I've tried moving forward. But then, shortly into it, I reach a wall. Then I go back, and reroute but I still hit the same wall. Every single time. I've gotten rid of the pictures, the memorical things. I've hidden away the sketches that I've made. I've done all I could think of. I'm still depressed and broken.



3nir says:

Posted on 10 Mar 2009


Time will heal your pain, buddy :(

Maybe you need to get busy with something else. I know it's hard. But you should work it out. It will take time of course. It's love! There's no first and last in it. Every single person who comes in our life matters a lot. Maybe you should find someone else. This time, go for the mind. Not for the look. I don't know what else to say. Take care.


little_miss_brightside says:

Posted on 10 Mar 2009

I know all to well how yu feel i'm goin through the samee thing

Its hard because i understand that your in love and no matter what happens your always gonna love this guy no matter how bad he treats you

I know in my heart that I'll always love this guy atm but the fact is that he treats me soo bad and there are so many other ppl out there who would be so much better but I just refuse to let him go

So what I try and do is tell him exactly how i feel because I'd much rather be shut down then live with regrets but he is gonna jst hurt me again so I've given him a new strike system enforced now and if he does more than three things wrong then I'm leavin and I can't go back no matter what

And when that day comes...which it probably would then I'm deleting all contacts of him getting rid of anything that reminds me of him and then findin a rebound

But thats all easier said then done i know and sorry if i've been ranting on and haven't been much help but i do know how yu feel and its really hard please if yu want to keep in contact with me and we can work through this together lol

Good luck sweetie



jessd says:

Posted on 10 Mar 2009

i really can't help on you this one. Cause if i were to tell you something, i really don't think it would work.:">

I think its really hard to get over things like that and everyone understands.

I think little miss brightside has a point, maybe if u tell him how u feel that wil take some depression off. And try staying best friends with each other, so u can see him, but be urself around him. Not walk around with ur head down. Show people ur a strong woman.

To stop thinking about it, i would do something that keeps u busy, something that makes u think.!

I hope i help and im soo sorry to hear it!~



krista090 says:

Posted on 10 Mar 2009


i wont say i totally understand you because i dont so that way i would b faking understanding. anyways so i think the best way to reduce the pain is to look your best because it will make you feel much better instantly, throw away anything which reminds you too much of your x, or better still sell the things on ebay or give them to charity, spend time with people that are fun and caring and not others that are in the same situation because you will feel both your troubles and theirs.


lil_leprecorn_xp says:

Posted on 10 Mar 2009

umm its kinda tricky coz i was the same for a while ... all i did was talk to people about it . it was a few years ago and i was used so i started talkin to my exxs best mate about it then we became really good m8s after 4 mnths we started dating .... i cant help you much but its just an idea :)


lil_leprecorn_xp says:

Posted on 10 Mar 2009

and your really pretty so you will find the right guy soon :">


sarababy says:

Posted on 11 Mar 2009

okay, so i get it.

and yes it sucks so so so much.

learn to love yourself first and formost.

never ever ever think that this boy is better then you and that he deserves any better then you. you are beautiful.

and you deserve the best.

always tell yourself that. if this boy has obviously moved on, maybe the most attractive thing to him would be if you moved on as well.

try playing hard to get. in the process you might start feeling less and less love for him as well.

you move on by loving and respecting yourself more then any boy.

that'll make you stronger and okay.

when you stop thinking about him all together, things will be better.

i hope this helps. just be independent.



jennyneuf says:

Posted on 13 Mar 2009

if i were you id try to keep myself occupied at all times so you don't even have time to think about him.. also try going out and meeting someone new! they're are lots of other fish in the sea, try getting a new hobby too. its like an addiction try and replace it with something healthy. if i were you i would get a new pet.. like a kitten or a puppy they can make anyone happy!


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