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pearlypeacock

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pearlypeacock asked:

07 Jun 2011

Problems with my best friends girlfriend

My best friend and i are having problems with his grilfriend. Christopher and i met in college 10 years ago, have been the best of friends for 9 of them and i am god mother to his little boy. However his girlfriend HATES me. I have tried to get on with her on the few occasions that we have met but it is very difficult when i keep hearing from chris how unhappy he is every time she has a violent outburst. she is convinced that i am trying to take her place. We have explained over and over that we are just friends, if anything were going to happen between us it would have happened years ago.

It is at the stage now where i cannot write to him because she reads his mail, i cannot send him messages because she checks his phone and i think his fb messages also. The only time we get to chat is on the phone while he walks home from work. Things got worse after the christening when she met me. I just dont know what to do, any advice?

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inside_out

inside_out says:

Posted on 08 Jun 2011

You might need to just back off for a while. If she's freaking out about you, the last thing she wants is for you to stick around. Let Christopher and her sort it out themselves - if they can't solve little problems like jealously then they definitely need to work on their relationship. You and Christopher sound like good friends so he'll understand. This won't last forever.

naira

naira says:

Posted on 09 Jun 2011

this same thing happened to me. me and my best friend invited her to her favorite restaurant. we sat and i started talking. i told her that when there is a long term friendship between a guy and a girl they become sister and brother and that she doesnt need to worry. i told her that i like someone else eventho i didnt, and for many times i invited her out. we went shopping and i gave her advice which helped their relationship. and she started to like me. in my opinion if you stop writing your best friend she will suspect more,coz she will think:''see,she used to write him a lot but because i check now,she doesnt. there is something going on..''
so DO NOT back off.

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