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pearlypeacock

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pearlypeacock asked:

26 Jul 2011

Feeling very confused

I have had two bad relationships one after the other, the first left me broke and depressed (almost suicidal) the second left me heart broken and not knowing where i had gone wrong. When i opened up to my friend and had a little break down he took the chance to make a pass at me. Wen i spoke to my collegue and my therapist they both told me it was my fault and i had it coming. I now dont know what to think, it is like i cannot turn to anyone and am worried it will not get better.

I admit i am lonely and would love another relationship however i am too scared as anyone i have trusted and cared for before has let me down and hurt me. Has anyone else been through this? Does it get better? x

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bumble_bee_123

bumble_bee_123 says:

Posted on 26 Jul 2011

Dont let boys destroy u..... dre nt worth it.....................nd it might seem bad nw bt it does get easier............dnt go luking 4 a relationship 2 soon xx

rocksoul

rocksoul says:

Posted on 27 Jul 2011

some people say letting ur wall down is gonna make you feel more vunerable, but ur not gonna heal if youve got ur wall up. i think you need a break from ur surroundings. see if u can go on a trip to somewhere. maybe u have some friend that moved away? you could always go visit them. they might have some good advice too?

lolahstarr

lolahstarr says:

Posted on 27 Jul 2011

I think you should NOT be wanting nor attempting a relationship at this point.You are the only one who can make yourself happy and so called "okay" in life. I used to be just like you(by what your post says) and one day I just realized that I did not need anyone in my life to make me feel good about myself or anything in my life.It's easier than you think once you pluck up the courage to take care of yourself.Nothing will change until you change it.Men come and go,but you will have yourself forever.

vampgirly

vampgirly says:

Posted on 27 Jul 2011

i was in a similarish position, and i gave myself time. i know it sounds stupid, but try writing stories or poetry about how you feel. thats what i did. hope i helped.

gtan88

gtan88 says:

Posted on 27 Jul 2011

Okay, maybe you are attracting the wrong people, it could be your personality. If you really want a relationship badly, i suggest you find out what makes you attract these men. If you prefer to stay the way you are, then try to lay off from getting a relationship. God has a plan for all of us and some people may get married someday while some stay powerfully single. You could be one of those people who are single-for-life or maybe your Mr. Right hasnt come for you yet. You could wait a little longer or forget. Stop finding him and let him find you. ;)

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