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obe_nerd_kanobe asked:

28 Feb 2009

am i overreacting?

so my bf is in the air force and he is on a trip in Washington for work.He and his buddies are hanging out and getting drunk at the bar and he says he was checking out other women....i got mad.i have been cheated on in every other previous relationship and i got mad cause i don't want him to go down that road.....it made me feel like im not pretty enough for him to hit on me so he goes and hits on random girls....am i overreacting or do i have a right to be angry?

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ilovesk8terboys

ilovesk8terboys says:

Posted on 28 Feb 2009

yeah you do

krista090

krista090 says:

Posted on 28 Feb 2009

hey!!

i think that depends on what he means by checking them out...if he was just looking and didnt focus his attention on one girl (in a being silly with his mates kind of way) then maybe you are over reacting, but if he either focused his attention on one particular girl, or flirted with anyone than u have the whole right to react like you are. ask him about the story but avoid nagging. or else get some highlights or some other subtle change because that gives you a complete new image without being too much. also remember that he was drunk and with friends so it might be excusable.

3nir

3nir says:

Posted on 28 Feb 2009

Maybe he was joking, or maybe he was telling the truth. And if he is telling the truth, you should be happy at least he is not hiding anything (like most of the guys do). And please don't overreact. Just try to make him understand that you don't like this. If you overreact then that guy might think that you don't trust him. What if it is a joke?

alice_kay

alice_kay says:

Posted on 28 Feb 2009

Here's one short answer: Yeap!

Don't be stressed too much, ya know.

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kissingyourzebra

kissingyourzebra says:

Posted on 28 Feb 2009

the best thing you can probably do now is talk to him :) talk to him about how you are feeling, but dont heavily put blame him otherwise he will just feel pressured and annoyed.

glamour_box

glamour_box says:

Posted on 28 Feb 2009

I would definitely be angry. x( BUT since I am an AF wife and I know how frustrating it is to be apart, I suggest you talk to him about this. You need to tell him that you're uncomfortable with it & tell him the reasons why even if he was just "joking around" with the guys. He's at least telling you that he's doing this, but still. He's your boyfriend.

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